09/04/2026
Saturday, we shared a sweet video of super senior horse Dex and one of the people who love her, spending some time together because we knew we were in Dex's final days, and saying goodbye isn't easy. We had hoped to have another couple of weeks, but in the past 48 hours Dex rapidly went downhill, causing us to make an unplanned early trip to the vet to say goodbye to her before things became unbearable. Tonight our 30ish year old girl is running fast and free in our greener pastures, so all that's left is to tell you all about our loved girl.
Dex has a LONG history with us. She first came to us way back in 2013, as an owner surrender with several of her friends including Katie & Suri, as well as Jackie & Duke who came from the same home. They all found their way to us after one of their owners died, and his widow was encouraged to move in with family but would only do so if her beloved horses were safe. We were glad to help.
Dex was a kind girl who seemed to have some training, but was often accident prone or had interesting medical situations. Early posts talk about a swollen leg, and her first summer with us she had a severe photodermatitis causing peeling and sunburn all over her pink skin. We learned so much from her.
Eventually she was adopted into a home with another GSH horse, and lived several years as a best friend. They participated in parades, rode around their farm, and mostly just enjoyed hanging out and being friends. In 2022, however, Dex returned to us after Chelsea passed away and her owner went through some life changes. She never stopped loving Dex, and made the 4+ hour trip to spend an hour with her today before we said goodbye.
The last four years Dex has been a loved part of our senior and Bug Club herd. She's given lead line rides, been groomed by hundreds of people, and was enjoying a pretty sweet retirement. But her luck didn't change, and most of you will remember her from April of 2024, when after a pony pampering party where she greeted people and was groomed for hours, a fluke storm out of the south east blew one of our metal run in shelters over her, pinning her down with her head underneath. Only soft spring grounds and an extremely rapid response saved her life, though she suffered severe injuries to both hind legs kicking through the tin, including an arterial bleed, and a skull fracture.
It was because of Dex that we met Drs. Bryant and Brittney Soulek, who answered our emergency call as we frantically looked for a vet to the west to avoid having to drive into the storm. Dr. Bryant spent several hours stitching up her legs, she received 5 large bags of fluid, and on several occasions we thought we were losing the fight. We all rejoiced when she made it through that first night, even louder when she came home, and have celebrated every single day since. Every one was a gift that we were lucky to have with her.
However, her left hind leg had significant scar tissue, and earlier this year we noticed her right front was showing some changes from compensating. We knew we were in the final countdown for our girl, especially as she started using that hind left leg more. We gave her a summer with free range of the farm, controlled pain management, and quietly started saying our goodbyes. Today we knew there was no point in waiting any more, as her decline was coming quickly, so we took her back to Dr. Bryant, who saved her life and bought her nearly 2.5 years more of a good life, and gave her the last rescue we could - freedom from pain and a body - and mind - that was failing her.
It's been a hard year for goodbyes, especially with our super seniors, as Dex is the 13th we've lost ... and probably not the last one we will be making the decision for. We've often talked about our very old herd and how we knew a bad year was coming, but it was only recently we really took the time to realize we are in the middle of that horrible, awful, "bad year." At the same time, being able to acknowledge and celebrate a long, long life full of love and safety makes it a little easier, and being able to give them a peaceful, pain free goodbye surrounded by people they trust and love is worth the pain that it brings.
So Dex, you will be so, so missed. Thank you for all you taught us all, and run fast in those tall grasses on beautiful, healthy, pain free legs.