03/14/2026
When I was nineteen, I went to work for a successful Western Pleasure trainer. I had just moved from Germany to the US, full of idealism and passion for learning, excited about all things Western, excited about (finally!) getting to ride real Quarter Horses, excited to work for an AQHA world champion trainer. I thought, naively, that the draped reins I saw on Western Pleasure horses meant the horses worked in a less restricted fashion than the dressage horses I was used to seeing. I thought,just as naively, that all professional trainers loved horses as much as I did, and that earning a World Champion belt buckle proved the person wearing it practiced excellent horsemanship.
My time in the world of Western show horses taught me some valuable lessons, mostly about what not to do with horses. I remember my non-horsey boyfriend watching me show at the State Fair. I was proud to be there, finally competing instead of mucking and grooming. His comment? “These horses look like they’re hurting. Are they lame?”
I remember feeling offended, though I knew, deep down, that he was right. I had just spent a year of my life learning how to make horses go around in that exaggerated, crawling, crabbing way the Western Pleasure judges rewarded. Because I lived in a world where this way of moving was considered desirable, where thin twisted-wire bits and rock grinder spurs were considered normal tools, I did not see the pain I was causing. I saw, instead, the silver and the sequins, the shiny belt buckles, the glory and the accolades. But, at the same time, my peripheral vision registered disturbing images I could not unsee: horses with bloody mouths and spur marks. Blocked tails that could not express discomfort. Exhausted horses. Drugged horses. Unhappy horses. My nagging unease grew, until in could no longer stand it. I finally left that environment, in search for a healthier way of working with horses.
Fast-forward 35 years. I’ve since embraced my dressage roots once more, with a better understanding of contact, lightness, and the relationship between them. I love what dressage can do for horses. But my peripheral vision still registers disturbing images I cannot unsee, often at the highest level of a sport that is supposed to reward correct training: intimidated horses, performing tense movements, their eyes bulging, their mouths straining against tight nosebands. Unhappy horses. I am experiencing a nagging, disturbing sense of déjà vu.
I can see the allure of the show world, this time in the form of tall boots and bejeweled browbands, shiny black leather and white gloves. I can see dedicated riders trying to make their horses perform in an outline and way of moving that may not feel comfortable to most horses but will earn high scores, just like we did in Western Pleasure classes all those years ago.
Just like competitive dressage, Western Pleasure originally was meant to show off correct training. It started as a discipline to show off horses that were a pleasure to ride - relaxed, happy, moving naturally. By the time I helped train Western Pleasure horses, the discipline had become a sad travesty of its original purpose, unrecognizable from its description in the rule books. It took me a long time to see this, because I lived inside the cult-like Western horse show culture, where so much abuse was normalized for so long.
I don’t compete much anymore. I now look at the world of competitive dressage from the outside. I can see the good intentions, the genuine love for horses, the idealism, the hard work. But I can also see the questionable extremes that subvert the ideal of a happy athlete into an unhealthy exaggeration. I can see compromises being made in peoples’ minds. I can see ethical lines blurring. I can see lines getting crossed. I can see the slippery slope of progressive normalization.
What is the solution? Should we quit competing altogether? How can we keep horses in our lives, and the horse community from fracturing completely, while also being fair to the horses? How can we make competition a more horse-friendly endeavor? Changing the judging standards never seems to have much effect. Shaming competitive riders is definitely counterproductive.
Am I catastrophizing? Am I exaggerating? If not, what can we do? I look forward to your suggestions.