08/16/2025
So I took Emma to lunch with me today and I wanted to take this video of how engaged she is with me when I’m eating my food. I talk about this because a lot of times we’re taking dogs into restaurants and we want them to sit with us, but their attention is not with us. Their attention is looking elsewhere to see what’s gonna happen. Maybe they’re scared somebody’s gonna walk up and try to pet them. Maybe in Emma’s case they’re hoping someone’s gonna come over and entice her to lick them or jump on them and undo all of daddy‘s hard work training her 😝 ….or in some cases The Dog is waiting for a dog to come in so they can try to play with them…..when you have a dog that’s struggling with being distracted one of the best skills you can teach them is to be able to focus on you for long periods of time even when you’re essentially ignoring them. In this particular case, I just occasionally gave Emma some of my chicken torta to reward her for continuing to pay such good attention to me. That’s not to say for the rest of Emma‘s life I’m always gonna expect her to pay attention to me when we’re eating but for now……because we’re working on something that’s very important for us to accomplish….zz. I really want to make it clear to her that her focus should be on me if she is anticipating something happening. until she can look around calmly and be truly relaxed when we go to eat and not be in a state of anticipation, I am going to pay her for paying attention to me and discourage her from becoming distracted while we’re sitting down eating……even if that means I’m breaking the rule of “don’t feed the dog table scraps”….to me having her happy when we go out and engaged with me is worth it!