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08/19/2026

Public outings & service dogs

❓What happens when a dog is given 30 days to completely change the way she lives, learns, and interacts with the world?M...
08/18/2026

❓What happens when a dog is given 30 days to completely change the way she lives, learns, and interacts with the world?

Meet Millie. 🐾

She was dropped off with me Monday morning at 8:00 AM for a 30-day Board & Train, so we’re just over 24 hours into her journey—and we’re already learning a LOT about this girl.

Her family came to me with some very real goals:

🔹 Jumping
🔹 Biting/mouthiness
🔹 Counter surfing
🔹 Better leash manners
🔹 And Dad has some lofty goals of off-leash reliability in just 4 weeks. 😳

I explained that we’ll reassess where she is around week 3 and determine whether it makes sense to begin introducing e-collar overlay work. But I’m not rushing that process. First things first: Millie needs to respond reliably to basic commands on leash before we start adding another layer of communication.

And honestly? That foundation matters.

So, what has the first 24+ hours looked like?

🐕 Grooming & handling: Millie worked on the grooming table and allowed herself to be handled well. She also let me Dremel all four paws without much fuss. Her groomer had previously told her family they couldn’t get her nails done, so I’m a little perplexed by that one! 😂

🐕 Dog introductions: She’s been introduced to several dogs and is pretty bewildered about how exactly she’s supposed to play and interact. We’ll keep working through that.

🐕 Leash work: Her leash manners are… well… gnarly. 😂 But today’s work on the 15-foot line was already much more pleasant for both of us.

🐕 Crate & place/resting: She’s learning that quiet downtime is part of the job too—whether that means resting calmly in her crate or being back-tied.

🐕 Counter surfing: She attempted to jump onto my counters three times this morning. The first two times, apparently, I did not make myself clear enough. 😉

The third time?

I think she understood the assignment. 😏

And this is exactly why I love documenting the process.

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing video of Millie’s progress. The dog you see this week will look markedly different from the dog who goes home.

But here’s the part that I really want every Board & Train family to understand:

Training doesn’t end when the dog goes home.

If the family doesn’t follow through, the old behaviors can—and often will—resurface quickly.

But if they DO follow through?

✨ Life can look completely different.
✨ Communication becomes clearer.
✨ Expectations become more realistic.
✨ And life becomes far more pleasant for both the dog AND the humans.

That’s also why every Board & Train family gets progression videos almost daily. I think it’s incredibly important—and reassuring—for families to be able to see what their dog is learning, how they’re progressing, and what the transformation actually looks like along the way.

Sending your dog away for training is a BIG deal. These aren’t just dogs. They’re beloved members of the family.

I am genuinely honored every time someone trusts me with one of their beloved pets. ❤️🐾

So buckle up, because Millie’s 30-day journey is just getting started.

📹 Follow along over the next month as we see just how far she can go!

👉 LIKE this post, COMMENT with your thoughts, and SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don’t miss Millie’s transformation from week 1 to the day she goes home! 🐾🔥

08/16/2026

Just look at them! They make me so proud.

08/15/2026

This was the gaggle of dogs waking into Sierra. Once inside they spread out and made sure to stay out of any other shopper’s way. Many were shopping themselves with their dogs as several of us frequent this store without our dogs. It was great day to test skills and we are incredibly grateful for the welcoming staff and complements received from several people.

08/15/2026

Here’s a clip of the paws hitting the pavement on our training outting today! The dogs did fantastic overall and we had great experience very at the Riverdale shops!

08/15/2026

Having a service dog does not give you ownership of public space—or the right to decide whose well-behaved dog belongs there.

A few weeks ago, my post about service dogs got a lot of attention. Today, that conversation came full circle in a way I wasn’t expecting.

We took a group of dogs out to proof our training in C**n Rapids, Minnesota. We visited TJ Maxx, Sierra, PetSmart, and another store along the way. Throughout the day, we were stopped countless times by employees and shoppers complimenting us on how incredibly well-behaved the dogs were.

And that’s exactly why we do this.

Training in a controlled environment is one thing. Taking those skills into the real world—with shopping carts, strangers, noises, tight aisles, other dogs, smells, distractions, and unexpected situations—is where you find out what your training is really made of.

Our dogs were phenomenal.

But while we were in Sierra, we encountered a woman with what she identified as a service dog. To be clear: I saw no inappropriate behavior from her dog. The dog appeared to be doing just fine.

The issue wasn’t her dog.

It was the entitlement surrounding it.

She became visibly upset that our dogs were in the store. One member of our group was criticized for not being a “respectful dog owner” while simply walking behind her. His dog wasn’t approaching her dog, attempting contact, barking, lunging, or causing a disturbance. It was simply walking through the store under control.

Later, we could hear her complaining to employees that there were dogs in the store that weren’t service dogs.

Meanwhile, multiple employees told us that their store welcomes well-behaved dogs—not only service dogs.

She also took issue with the puppy I currently have in for a board-and-train being wheeled in a shopping cart, making the point that service dogs shouldn’t be in shopping carts.

Here’s the problem with that argument:

We weren’t claiming these dogs were service dogs. We didn’t need to. We were following the store’s policy and training well-behaved dogs in a place where they were welcome.

And here’s another important point: you cannot determine whether a dog is a service dog simply because it isn’t wearing a vest, patch, tag, or special equipment. The ADA does not require service dogs to wear identifying gear.

So imagine the irony of creating a scene over dogs you assume aren’t service dogs while simultaneously advocating for service-dog access.

Having a service dog does not give someone greater ownership of a dog-friendly business. It doesn’t give anyone the authority to police every other well-behaved dog they encounter. And it certainly doesn’t excuse treating responsible dog owners as though they are doing something wrong when they are following the business’s rules.

One of our people politely attempted to speak with her. She wanted absolutely nothing to do with the conversation.

That was unfortunate, because it could have been an opportunity for respectful education on both sides.

Instead, I’ll focus on what mattered most today:

The dogs crushed it.

They worked around distractions. They remained under control. They represented responsible dog ownership beautifully. And the businesses and members of the public who stopped to compliment them noticed.

That’s what proofing looks like.

That’s what responsible training looks like.

And yes—we’ll absolutely be back. We greatly appreciated the stores and employees who welcomed us and recognized the work that goes into producing calm, neutral, well-mannered dogs in public.

Good dogs aren’t created by avoiding the real world. They’re created by learning how to behave in it.

**nRapidsMN

08/13/2026

🐾 POLITE BEGGING vs. ACTIVE BEGGING — and why “people food” isn’t the real issue

In the first video, my dogs are doing what I’d call polite begging. 😂 They’re lying down, opportunistically waiting to see if they might get a tidbit while Clara 🐻 eats breakfast.

They’re not pestering anyone. They’re not climbing all over her. In fact, they’re lying on the carpet with their heads down.

Could I have told them to go to another part of the house? Absolutely. I was lazy this morning, and honestly, they weren’t bothering anything. 🤷‍♀️

But watch what changes in the second video.

Clara is actively feeding them from the counter.

And here’s the important part:

👉 She’s feeding them DOG FOOD.

Not bacon.
Not pancakes.
Not scraps from her breakfast.

🐕 Dog food.

That’s why I want to challenge the old idea that “feeding your dog people food creates begging.”

It’s not necessarily WHAT is in the bowl. It’s what you DO with what’s in the bowl. 💡

If you regularly give your dog dog food, treats, or people food from the kitchen counter, your plate, the couch, or the popcorn bowl, you’re teaching them that hanging around while humans eat can pay off.

And behaviors that pay off tend to get repeated. 🐾

On the other hand, if hanging around your food never produces anything, your dog may still watch, hope, or wait nearby—because, hello, if I were a dog and thought there was a chance I might score something delicious, I’d probably hang around too. 😂

The bigger question isn’t:

❌ “Do you feed your dog people food?”

It’s:

🐾 Do you want your dog to beg?
🐾 What behavior are you reinforcing around food?
🐾 Are you okay with your dog waiting nearby?
🐾 If the begging becomes annoying, can you send your dog away—and will they actually go?

There’s a big difference between a dog quietly lying nearby and a dog demanding food, pawing, whining, jumping, staring you down, or refusing to give you space.

And YOU get to decide what is acceptable in your house.

✨ The food itself isn’t teaching the behavior. Your patterns around the food are.

So… do your dogs beg? 👀🐶
Do you allow it? Does it bother you? And could you send them away from the table if you wanted to?

👇 Let’s talk about it.

08/12/2026

🐾 WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR DOG’S BEHAVIOR WHEN LIFE DOESN’T GO ACCORDING TO SCHEDULE?

Today is not a typical day at Prep School.

Normally, we’d be outside training, doing loads of recalls, sit-stays, group play, nails and grooming, and a whole lot more physical activity on my end.

But I injured myself over the weekend, and I’ve been moving very slowly all week. So today, I had to change the plan.

And you know what?

The dogs are handling it beautifully. 👏🐶

That isn’t luck. That’s part of training.

Dogs need to learn that every day will NOT look exactly the same.

Think about your own routine with your dog. Maybe you:

🎾 Throw the tennis ball several times a day.
🚶 Walk at exactly the same time every morning and evening.
🏃 Exercise them whenever they start nudging or pestering you.
⏰ Follow nearly the same schedule seven days a week.

Eventually, your dog may start reminding you when it’s time.

A nudge comes, and we think, “Oh! He’s bored. I better take him for his walk.”

But here’s the question I want you to think about:

⚠️ What happens on the day you CAN’T?

What happens when you get the flu?

What happens when you hurt yourself?

What happens when you have surgery and need several weeks to recover?

What happens when a new baby comes home and suddenly the entire household schedule changes?

Life throws curveballs. Our dogs need to be prepared for them, too.

When we unintentionally teach a dog that certain things happen at certain times every single day, changes to that routine can become frustrating or stressful. In some dogs, that can contribute to anxiety, demanding behavior, barking, pacing, or difficulty settling.

That’s why flexibility matters.

🎥 Watch the short video accompanying this post.

Pay particular attention to the dogs in the kennels who haven’t had their turn yet.

What don’t you hear?

BARKING.

They aren’t screaming, demanding, or telling me to hurry up. They’re waiting patiently while other dogs work.

Today they’re still getting physical activity. They’re still getting mental work. They’re still training.

It’s simply quieter and different than normal.

And today, I’m incredibly thankful for that.

I’m thankful for the training these dogs have had, and I’m equally thankful for the follow-through their owners have been doing at home. Without both pieces, getting through a day like today would be a whole lot harder.

💡 Now think ahead for your own dog.

Do you have surgery coming up?
Are you expecting a baby? 👶
Are work hours about to change?
Are you moving?
Could an injury suddenly prevent you from maintaining your normal routine?

You can’t prepare for every curveball.

But you CAN prepare your dog to understand that change is part of life.

A well-trained dog shouldn’t only know how to function when everything goes according to plan. We also want them to be able to settle, wait, adapt, and cope when the plan changes.

🐕 So here’s my challenge for you:

Look at your dog’s daily routine and ask yourself:

“Am I teaching my dog to be flexible… or am I accidentally teaching my dog that life must happen on their schedule?”

That answer may matter a whole lot more on the day life suddenly changes. ❤️🐾

08/12/2026

⚠️ TRIGGER WARNING: This post may cause excessive pearl-clutching, defensive comments, hurt feelings, and an uncontrollable urge to type “BUT MY DOG…” before reading the whole thing. Proceed accordingly. ⚠️

I’m revisiting a couple of topics that have chapped my ass before, because apparently they still need to be said.

First: your dog does not automatically belong on a restaurant patio just because the restaurant allows dogs.

If you bring your dog to a patio, it should be trained well enough to exist there without becoming everyone else’s problem.

I’m talking about the barking.
The lunging.
The whining.
The leash stretched six feet across the walkway.
The dog wandering up to other tables because “he just wants to say hi!”
The owner completely ignoring the fact that everyone around them is now participating in their dog’s outing.

No.

I love dogs. That doesn’t mean I want your dog in my space while I’m eating.

A dog-friendly patio means well-behaved dogs are welcome. It should not mean everyone else has to tolerate disruptive behavior because an owner is either oblivious to it or feels entitled to have their dog there.

And since somebody will inevitably say it: I feel the same way about kids.

If a child is having a full-blown meltdown on a patio, take them away from the dining area until they settle down. Nobody else signed up to listen to it through dinner.

Yes, I said that as a mother.

Now for the second topic that will probably make the comment section even more entertaining…

Emotional support animals.

I recently saw a post from someone looking for help in our community who said they have three emotional support dogs.

Three.

I’m going to say what a lot of people are probably thinking:

Nobody needs three emotional support dogs. At that point, you have pets.

And when “emotional support animal” becomes a label slapped onto multiple pets primarily to get around housing restrictions, fees, or other rules, it hurts the people who have legitimate needs and are actually using the accommodations as intended.

An emotional support animal can absolutely be one piece of someone’s mental-health support system. But it shouldn’t become a magic phrase that exempts someone from every inconvenient rule.

And I think there’s another conversation worth having: if an animal is necessary for your emotional well-being, what other support are you pursuing with qualified professionals?

Counseling? Therapy? Appropriate medical care or medication when recommended? Other evidence-based tools that help you function independently?

A dog can provide comfort and companionship. A dog is not a replacement for comprehensive mental-health care.

And before the comments inevitably confuse the two: emotional support animals and trained service dogs are not the same thing. That distinction matters.

I know this opinion won’t make everybody happy.

That’s okay.

Disagree with me. Debate me. Tell me where you think I’m wrong.

But here’s what I want to know:

When does accommodating someone’s animal start unfairly affecting everyone around them?

Should restaurants be quicker to ask people with disruptive dogs to leave—even on dog-friendly patios?

And here’s the spicy one:

Do you think the emotional-support-animal system is being abused, or am I completely off base?

Have at it. 👇

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