04/08/2026
I know very few, if any, dog people who don't look back on their past life with dogs and regret some of the things they did, the choices they made, and the ways they worked with their dogs.
I make no secret of the fact I am a crossover trainer, one who used to use equipment and methods that are not all positive reinforcement reward-based training. When I was a child Barbara Woodhouse was the Graeme Hall of her day, on the TV all the time and so regarded as the expert of the time. Pretty much every dog we saw was wearing a choke chain (yes, my dogs included) because that was just 'how it's done' and I didn't know any better.
The thing is that I started to learn (although, regrettably, years later). I learned about canine behaviour and communication, and to see how to understand what my dogs were telling me in the moment. How they felt, if they were happy and comfortable, in pain, feeling unsure and stressed.
I learned a better way to handle my dogs, with different walking equipment that was comfortable and safe for them. I learned how to make sure I avoided putting them further into situations they would struggle to deal with.
All of these are massively positive things, which have changed my relationships with my dogs and brought us to a whole new understanding.
This doesn't mean that it was a comfortable process to go through, this realisation of what I'd been doing wrong. It was by far the opposite and I’ll be honest, there were (a lot of) tears shed over what I’d done. Cognitive dissonance, when you realise the wrongness of how things have been in the past, is a very difficult thing to go through.
This is why I don’t judge people who have used these methods in the past but who now want to change. I have little time for the people who carry on using aversive methods with little or no regard for the physical and mental well-being of the dogs in their care. Especially not for the ‘social media training gurus’ who often have little knowledge but a great amount of marketing skills and fool people into thinking that what they are doing is fine and 'works' based on flashy videos that, when viewed with an educated eye, show the truth to be very different.
For those who really want to change, who want to find that better way to live and work with their dogs, my door is always open. No judgement, just help and support for you and your dog while you find that more cooperative and harmonious way.
Connection, not corrections.