18/07/2025
Nothing unusual here ... everything as it should be.
And yet just two days ago, this was impossible.
Lucy, a 10 year old x breed, has a lot of anxiety that I was called in to help with.
Part of the end result of that anxiety was her reaction to the television if there was a dog or dogs in the program or movie they were watching.
Lucy's reaction to the sight or sound of a dog on the TV was SO bad that her family could not watch a movie or a show that had even one dog in it.
This resulted in one owner, who really wanted to see the movie "Dog", to have to go somewhere besides home to watch it.
It was also affecting their family Thanksgiving.
They have Thanksgiving at the wife's mothers house.
Mom likes to watch the National Dog Show on Thanksgiving.
Mom has not been able to do so in years due to Lucy's endless LOUD barking, hackles up at the TV without even pausing for a breath.
What you see here is the result of one meeting with Lucy's family -
no leash
no treats
no yelling
no correction
When she'd start barking at the TV, we'd simply get up and walk her out of the living room, saying nothing. Once out of the room, she was immediately quiet so was invited back in.
After a few repetitions, Lucy learned the cause and effect of her barking at the TV - bark and be invited to leave the room and the family, or be quiet and be with the family, and that the dogs on the TV were nothing to be concerned with and laying quietly near her family trumps her unfounded worry.
We didn't share her worry and once she was quiet in the living room she was able to pick up on that - her family behaved no differently when there were dogs on the TV than when there weren't.
Dogs are family animals, just as we are, they want to be with their family, so showing them how to accomplish that gives them the ability to relax, be at peace and enjoy life.
Her anxiety also bleeds into other areas of her life and responses, so we will be addressing those over the next 3 weeks while we work to get to the core and root cause of her anxiety and relieve that so she can spend her remaining years in a happy state of mind free of worry.
Anxiety rarely, if ever, shows itself in just one response or behaviour; it can affect many aspects of a dogs reactions and all of their life and mindset.
A dog living with anxiety is not living their best life, with the right tools and knowledge, you can change it - and you owe it to your dog to do so.
I am so happy for Lucy that her family is willing to do the work to change it and give Lucy her best life