04/07/2026
I’m going to tell you my biggest secret to being fearful under saddle.
If anyone tells you they aren’t scared of falling off a horse, they either have not ridden enough, or they are dirty f***ing liars. I’m terrified every single time I get on a horse that has a bucking/bolting/rearing problem, yet it’s what I do for a living.
The secret is, you’ll never get over it. You’ll always be fearful. BUT you can trick yourself and turn that fear into another emotion. Fear is just adrenaline pumping through your body coupled with tension as your body is gearing up to take impact. The adrenaline is fine, the tension isn’t.
Horses can feel every part of you move. They can feel you breath, clench you jaw, or white knuckle the reins. That’s when your fear can set you up for failure.
So, in order to relieve that tension, make that ADRENALINE pumping through you focus on an another emotion.
Get Angry. People say don’t ride horses angry. I disagree. Don’t ride horses FRUSTRATED. Frustration makes you irrational and flustered. Anger centers you with a stupid amount of confidence and determination. Did a horse just buck on you because he has gotten away with it for far too long? Time to make him sweat. No, I am not saying beat the crud out of the horse. I’m saying give your adrenaline something to do, get angry, and get that horses feet moving.
How about those highly reactive horses that are just constantly spooking and your terrified you’re going to fall off when they freak out? You can’t turn that adrenaline into anger because there’s nothing to be angry over. They’re just prey animals reacting with a prey drive. Adrenaline pumping? Laugh it off. Look crazy on the horse. Hoot and hauler (that’ll probably help desensitize them too🤷♀️). Let the tension roll off of you with a laugh.
It works, I promise. You’ll look a little crazy doing it…But hey, all the best people are.
Please enjoy this video of me laughing while I fear for my life on Tall Boy the Toddler Terror.