07/24/2025
You might have seen the reel I posted last night about HOP's Nothin' But A Good Boy, Gobo, and I taking a trip up to our friend Sonny at Bar S Bar Art of Horsemanship.
I want to share one of my mistakes, but keep in mind I am not beating myself up about it, I just want us horsemen and horsewomen to connect on being human.
I nearly erased 60+ days of training on that last obstacle because I was so dang proud of my horse and over estimated my preparation
Gobo easily went on, over, across and through 3 or 4 big fields of drop dead gorgeous obstacles. No problem at all. If I wore a hat consistently it would go off to Sonny for setting this course up real nice. Lots of big questions and space to learn.
🎯To me, this accomplishment means Gobo will easily find a good home and have a very high chance of staying in that home for many many years.
Noodles, bridges, tiires, guys he even did the teeter totter🏅
The last field had 2 water obstacles, and the second one was a water box.
💪🏼 The ego check extraordinare box
✅ Keep in mind that Gobo has done water obstacles at home, and he has goes over anything I've asked him to go over
👹 This is a 2'x2' (maybe 3x3?) wood water box with plywood on top. The plywood has holes in it and moves a little side to side and a lot up and down when stepped on.
If I were at home:
✨ I would have started with it empty, and Sonny would have emptied it for me if I asked...but I didn't ask
✨ I would have taken the top piece off and put it between the box and the fence.
✨I would have taken my time and let him do other things sooner
🤦🏼♀️But, I was at the last obstacle and we had conquered everything else.
I got self-conscious
I got embarrassed
I stopped using my thinking brain, even when I noticed Gobo had stopped using his. I was trying everything but the right answer.
Sonny patiently allowed my lesson to unfold, not giving me the answer or shaming me for losing my way
In the end, I figured it out, I stopped my trying and started to settle....but not without frustrating my horse
We did not conquer the water box yesterday, but we will be back to learn again
I made sure to revisit the obstacles he so easily went over before the water box, and I am embarrassed to say he was absolutely more weary of them then our first time around.
I should have done a lot of things better yesterday, I could have
✨broken the big questions down more
✨I could have given Gobo more time to regulate before going back through the easier-for-him questions
✨ I could have taken my time when he was doing well
Today, I'm going to apologize to my horse again, and revisit the little things we do at home
🏆 I'm going to start slow and ask Gobo to trust me again
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