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07/09/2025

I'm absolutely in love with this 2 year old filly by Hashtags. Pink has just finished 90 days in my program and she has been such a joy to start.

I used to think if you can't keep your horse operating in the same bit all the time you were doing something wrong. Now ...
06/21/2025

I used to think if you can't keep your horse operating in the same bit all the time you were doing something wrong. Now I think this approach works a lot better. I even rotate out several different smooth snaffles of varying mouthpiece shapes. Keeps things fresh and you never know when you'll stumble across something a certain horse likes better

Rarely Ride a Horse in the Same Bit More Than Three Rides in a Row – Here’s Why

This might surprise some folks, but I almost never ride a horse in the same bit more than three rides in a row. I’ve found over the years that switching bits regularly—not drastically, just subtly—keeps a horse softer in the mouth, more responsive, and less likely to brace.

It’s not about gimmicks or confusing the horse. It’s about keeping things fresh.

When a horse wears the same bit day in and day out, it starts to dull out to the pressure points that bit engages. It’s no different than if you wore the same pair of boots every day—you stop noticing the little pressure spots until they rub you raw. Same thing happens in a horse’s mouth. That constant, identical feel builds dullness, tension, and in some cases, resistance.

By changing bits every few rides—maybe switching from a smooth snaffle to a twisted snaffle, or a short-shank correction to a little ported bit—I’m not changing the whole conversation, I’m just changing the tone of my voice. Each bit touches the pressure points a little differently: maybe the tongue, maybe the bars, maybe the corners of the lips. That slight difference in feel wakes the horse back up to their training, helps them stay mentally tuned in, and keeps them from getting heavy or bracy.

It also makes me a better rider. When I switch bits, I have to really be aware of how each one communicates differently. It keeps me from falling into bad habits and relying too much on any one tool. The goal is always to ride from my seat, legs, and timing—but it helps when the horse is fresh and soft in the face, not anticipating or tuning out the same old feel.

This doesn’t mean I’m bouncing from harsh bit to harsh bit, or trying to “fix” a horse with hardware. Far from it. Most of the bits I rotate through are fairly mild, and I choose based on what the horse is ready for and how they’re progressing. It’s more about giving the horse a fresh experience—one that encourages them to think, feel, and respond rather than brace and resist.

So if you’ve been riding in the same bit for weeks or months and your horse is starting to get heavy, fussy, or bracy… consider this: it might not be their attitude. It might just be time for a new conversation.

I'd love to hear from others—do you ever rotate your bits? What have you noticed in your horses when you do?

06/20/2025

It's officially summer in Texas and we are working hard to beat the heat each day. It sure helps when you have good horses that make the day easy. This is Spade, a 2 year old filly by One Shiney Metallic on her second ride.

**tstarting

06/18/2025

✨You can fake calm with people.
✨You can smile through nerves. Say “I’m fine” when you’re not.
✨But your horse?
They know better.

✨Before your hands ever lift the reins,
before your legs give a cue,
they’ve already felt you.

The tension in your breath.
The doubt behind your focus.
The pressure you’re putting on yourself.
They feel it all — not as judgment, but as information.

✨That’s why the real work isn’t just in your hands or your seat.
✨It’s in your energy.
✨Your presence.
✨Your ability to breathe through the nerves and ride with clarity — not chaos.

🐎So if your horse is acting out,
pause before you correct.
💕Check in with your own state first.
Because what you bring to the saddle is what they ride with.

And the more honest you are with yourself,
the more your horse will trust you.

🐴💭

I will have an open stall next month July 2025 and another open stall in August. Spots have been filling up pretty quick...
06/17/2025

I will have an open stall next month July 2025 and another open stall in August. Spots have been filling up pretty quick lately so call or text Bob Mallory at 503-608-0584 if you have a horse you need to send out

06/04/2025

My favorite groundwork exercise to do with a young horse

I posted about this on my personal page but I have to take a moment to be so grateful for my amazing customers. As a you...
05/08/2025

I posted about this on my personal page but I have to take a moment to be so grateful for my amazing customers. As a young trainer with a new business I really thought I would have some difficult customers before I got the good ones, and that just hasn't been the case. My customers trust my judgment and trust their horses in my care and I can't express how grateful I am, it really makes my job easier. To anyone who has sent me a horse or recommended me to a friend, thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

It's been a while since I've had an opening but I am looking to fill a stall or two over the summer. Call or text Bob Ma...
05/05/2025

It's been a while since I've had an opening but I am looking to fill a stall or two over the summer. Call or text Bob Mallory at 503-608-0584 and let's discuss your goals for your horse.

05/05/2025

A little video showing how I will do a first saddling on a c**t. If you'd like to see videos on how I like to do something, let me know in the comments!

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