05/08/2025
Fostering Isn’t Free—And We Need to Stop Pretending It Is
One of the biggest challenges rescues are facing right now is a steep decline in the number of people willing to foster. And after talking to former fosters, reading social media posts, and reflecting on the broader foster experience, it’s clear that one major reason is this:
We’ve spent too long telling people that fostering is “free.”
The truth? It’s not.
Yes, most rescues cover basic supplies—food, vetting, crates—but many fosters go above and beyond. They buy treats, toys, beds. They drive to vet appointments and adoption events. They invest their time, their gas, and often a bit of their sanity.
Let’s be real:
• Your foster dog will probably chew something up—maybe a shoe, a remote, or the corner of your couch.
• It might scream in a kennel.
• It might dig holes in the yard or scratch your baseboards.
• It may not be house-trained.
• It could be sick—or get your dog sick.
• It might stink, be terrified, or act like it’s never lived indoors (because it probably hasn’t).
We are often pulling dogs from high-stress shelters with very little information. We don’t always know if they’re dog-friendly, cat-friendly, or even people-friendly. That’s the risk—and the responsibility—fosters take on.
Fostering is a commitment. It’s work. And we need to start preparing people for that truth—not sugarcoating it.
Because when we gloss over the hard parts just to get someone to say “yes,” they often come back a week later overwhelmed, wanting to give the dog back. And yes, rescues get frustrated—and that frustration is valid. But if we didn’t give that foster the full picture up front, then we share the blame too.
So let’s start being honest with potential fosters. Let’s set them up for success instead of setting them up to fail.
Because fostering saves lives. But only when it’s done with eyes wide open