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The Soulful Horse is designed so that any learner, of any age and riding discipline, who wishes to improve their skills can take their training and riding to an exceptional level. Sessions are based on what your personal goals are with you and your horse, or use one of our incredible equine teacher’s if you don’t yet have a horse. Through a combination of theoretical and practical sessions you can get the best combination of the academic knowledge as well as the physical practice.

Had a really lovely first day of the clinic with Kathleen Beckham. Auditors are welcome at Silverdawn Farm, this Wednesd...
05/20/2026

Had a really lovely first day of the clinic with Kathleen Beckham. Auditors are welcome at Silverdawn Farm, this Wednesday, and Thursday from 9am-5pm.

Kathleen does an exceptional job of helping people identify gaps in their training foundation while building practical tools for long term success.

It’s been incredibly helpful having her eyes on my young gal, Reverie. I’m really enjoying the process and all the thoughtful conversations this clinic has brought.

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Roy Stansell

This progression really stops me for a second.Harley is an 18 year old foundation Quarter Horse, and it’s so easy to for...
05/03/2026

This progression really stops me for a second.

Harley is an 18 year old foundation Quarter Horse, and it’s so easy to forget where you started when you’re in the day to day work but this is why tracking progress matters.

When we started, balance, consistency, and connection were all things we were still developing together.

Over the last three years, I’ve been working with JC Horse Training - Juliette Cimetiere, and having consistent eyes on me has made the biggest difference.

Harley also has navicular, diagnosed in 2022, and while he’s had excellent management with his diet, access to movement, and farrier care, it wasn’t always clear how well he would maintain his soundness.

Now, he is more sound than he used to be. He’s more lifted, more balanced, and able to carry himself, and he’s solid enough in his work to be part of my lesson program.

That kind of change isn’t accidental. Quality work makes a difference.

This isn’t just a transformation in the horse. It’s collaboration, mentorship, and a process I couldn’t have done as successfully on my own.

The first photo is from 2024.
The second is 2026.

Thank you to Roy Stansell, for capturing these moments over the years.

Do the work, and you don’t have to do it alone. 💪

A great post by my friend, Jennie
01/11/2026

A great post by my friend, Jennie

Dominance Theory Part 1

We cannot talk about training methodologies without addressing dominance theory, as its rhetoric is extremely popular across the training world, but especially, it seems, in the horse world. In the next few weeks, I will get into that rhetoric and how it is a hindrance to your training, but first, I want to talk about what it is and its history.

Dominance theory was first coined by Rudolph Schenkel in the 1930s from a short and incomplete study that he performed on captive wolves in a zoo in Switzerland. The theory was popularized in 1970 by wildlife biologist David Mech in his book The Wolf: Ecology and Behavior of an Endangered Species. As often happens with science, Mech continued to study wolf behavior, realized he was wrong, and spent the rest of his career discrediting his earlier work.

Before we get into why it was discredited, let’s talk about what it is. Dominance theory is the idea that a wolf pack is led by an “alpha” or dominant individual, who fights to hold dominance over the rest of the pack, while other individuals fill out lower ranks in the hierarchy.

As it pertains to training, it states that we should insert ourselves into the pack hierarchy and attempt to occupy that dominant role. The essence is that we are in constant competition with our animals for dominance and that they are most comfortable as our subordinates.

I am not sure how dominance theory got translated from dogs into horses, but the crossover does make a certain amount of sense. My hypothesis is this: horses have always been taught with a mixture of positive punishment and negative reinforcement, mostly because they are large and can be dangerous when they are not well trained. For most of our history with horses, men were the only ones allowed to train, and they were teaching horses to do a job. It wasn’t until the late 1800s and early 1900s that women were really allowed to train horses in any real way.

In recent history, the demographic of horse owners has gone from men who used them to perform a job to middle aged women and young girls who enjoy riding, but mostly just want a pet. Around this time, dominance theory took the dog world by storm, gaining traction with shows like The Dog Whisperer with Cesar Millan. Horse trainers, who were trying to find ways to get women to be more firm with their pet horses so that they didn’t get hurt, co-opted the methods to make people who didn’t want to scare or hurt their pets more comfortable doing just that.

Though I know that certain very prominent trainers have admitted that they did this on purpose, I like to believe that most trainers at this time just saw an explanation for why their methods were working, and confirmation bias led them to believe that similar things were happening in horse herds.

This brings us to 1986, when David Mech realized that all of the observations for his previous work had been done on captive wolves. He went to Ellesmere Island and observed wild wolves for the next 25 summers. What he found painted a much different picture. It turned out that packs consisted of a breeding pair and their offspring between six months and three years old. The breeding pair were dominant in the sense that their offspring would look to them for guidance until they dispersed to meet up with other dispersed wolves to become breeding pairs themselves. In Mech’s 25 years of observing wild wolves, no disputes over dominance were observed.

Similarly, more recent observations of feral horse herds have found no support for a dominance hierarchy. Horses tend to create relatively stable harems that are watched over by one to two stallions.

Offspring disperse at a young age to either create their own harems or bachelor herds. Harems are usually guided by older mares who have the most experience.

Why do we still see the remnants of dominance theory in horse training? One thing that we need to realize when we ask this question is that positive punishment is reinforcing for the punisher because it creates immediate behavior change. Dominance theory is a way to make people comfortable with the idea of exerting enough pressure on their horse to create immediate behavioral change, which further reinforces the person using pressure.

Consequences of that pressure are usually not immediate and are explained away by the horse attempting to assert their dominance, thus met with more force. Coupled with the fact that these ideas have now been passed down through many training traditions and we have generations of people who grew up with them, it becomes very hard to completely eliminate it from our culture.

Over the next few weeks, I will be doing a few more posts on how to look for dominance theory, how its ideals affect how we train, and how to start changing your views even if you don’t change how you train. As always, feel free to reach out with questions or comments, and let me know if there are any specific things you would like me to write about.

References:

https://www.wolf.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/267alphastatus_english.pdf

https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/ecology-and-evolution/articles/10.3389/fevo.2022.848741/full

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Happy New Year from me and my horse ✨Thank you to everyone who trusted us, learned alongside us, and supported this work...
01/01/2026

Happy New Year from me and my horse ✨
Thank you to everyone who trusted us, learned alongside us, and supported this work over the past year. Wishing you a year filled with clarity, kindness, and meaningful moments.

Photo by Roy Stansell

Happy Holidays to our wonderful community. We’re so grateful for each of you and wish you a season filled with joy and w...
12/26/2025

Happy Holidays to our wonderful community. We’re so grateful for each of you and wish you a season filled with joy and warmth.

Photo by Roy Stansell

We need to stop teaching dominance theory as a fundamental framework for training horses. It isn’t how herds actually wo...
12/11/2025

We need to stop teaching dominance theory as a fundamental framework for training horses. It isn’t how herds actually work, and it’s a misunderstanding that often ends up normalizing fear, force, and conflict as acceptable ways to train.

Dominance theory has been thoroughly debunked in modern ethology. If we’re still using “dominance” to explain horse behavior, we’re about 60 years behind the science. Dominance only applies to competition between members of the same species for things like resources or mates, which humans simply are not competing for with horses.

Horses don’t view humans as herd leaders or dominant figures. They view us as predictable or unpredictable, safe or unsafe, reinforcing or aversive. That’s it.

Intentionally provoking a horse to “find their thresholds” doesn’t create insight. It creates stress and teaches the horse that humans can be unpredictable. Modern training is based on learning theory, not manufactured conflict.

Real partnership comes from clarity, timing, consistency, and meeting the horse’s needs, not from power struggles. When we stop approaching training like a contest, horses stop feeling like they need to protect themselves.

This post originally came from a conversation I had on another trainer’s page where dominance theory was being presented as the primary way to train. That discussion made something really important stand out to me: clients deserve to know they have choices. They deserve clear, honest information about different training philosophies so they can choose the one that aligns with their values and with what they want for their horse.

The photo I’m sharing here is a great example of a horse going over threshold. We all make mistakes, and those moments happen to every trainer at some point. Placing horses into that state as part of a session doesn’t support learning and can create unnecessary stress. Overthreshold horses aren’t learning, they’re coping. Our job is to help them feel safe, supported, and able to process what we’re teaching.

Professionals have a responsibility to help clients make informed choices, not funnel them into one specific method just because it’s the only one we personally use. That requires accuracy, honesty, and a willingness to update our understanding when science gives us better information.

I’m sharing this because we can only move forward when we’re willing to have real, open conversations without shutting them down. This is about doing better, together, for the horses who depend on us.

Photo by Roy Stansell

12/10/2025

Harley’s latest trick: giving kisses on cue.

11/18/2025

Harley is helping!

We had a great clinic with Paula Kierkegaard this month! I loved seeing so much progress from everyone, students, collea...
10/21/2025

We had a great clinic with Paula Kierkegaard this month! I loved seeing so much progress from everyone, students, colleagues, and horses alike. I came away with plenty of new ideas that I’m already putting into practice and lots of things to think about.

Big thanks to JC Horse Training - Juliette Cimetiere for helping make it possible and to Roy Stansell for the wonderful photos!

I’ve been spending some time with this sweet older guy, Mac, while his owner is off traveling.Mac has always been pretty...
10/04/2025

I’ve been spending some time with this sweet older guy, Mac, while his owner is off traveling.

Mac has always been pretty suspicious of people, and the usual approaches just haven’t worked for him. Lately I’ve been using cooperative care techniques I’ve been learning from Peggy Hogan and Anat Shalev, and it’s made such a big difference.

Simple things like haltering or putting on a fly mask are now done on his terms. He has a “start button” to let me know when he’s ready, and he can pause the process if he needs to. Giving him that choice has really helped him feel safer and more relaxed.

Highly recommend checking out Peggy and Anat’s Cooperative Care course if you want to learn more!

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