03/23/2024
Happy World Doula Week🏮💡🕯️
The first day of mentorship, I stared into 10 beautiful bright eyes, eager and ready to learn and grow as doulas. I proceeded to explain to them an analogy I felt was as close to what a doula is and does— doulas are lighting up the path the mother is walking on in her pregnancy and birth journey. She is figuring out where to go and what is needed, as the doula, stands on the side of the path, walking alongside her, holding up a lamp for her. She gently warns of dangers, she encourages her when she needs to rest and when she needs to nourish herself. She yields off any predators that may try to come up from behind in the forest. She protects, she loves fiercely, and is a truth teller.
Doulas are the water girl, the fix her hair and put a cool rag on the back of her neck gal, encourage mothers when we start to see overwhelm take over her face and eyebrows, loving reminders to let go, surrender, trust, and to remind her of her “why” and the strength that is already within. Doulas are the “do not touch her or perform anything without proper consent” and watchful of any wolves in sheep’s clothing. We make plates of food after birth, grab mother’s favorite meal, or pull her hair back when she vomits. We are the hip squeezers, back scratchers, and holders of mothers as they catch their own baby…. Our job is not glamorous….but it is raw and holy. We serve out of the depths of our heart, because we have been there, too. And when you send thank you cards, letters, sweet posts or texts saying “I couldn’t have done it without you”, we will respond “yes, you could have, but I was so very honored to serve you and witness your strength”.
Continuous amounts of thank you’s to all the women and families who extend the invitation to be welcomed into what I believe to be one of the most sacred acts a human can and will ever do….open the portal of her body to bring what once was heaven side, to earth. This will never get old. My passion for serving has only intensified.
This work is Holy
S/O to for the beautiful photo 🫶🏼