Thumbprint Love

01/03/2021

I know it's cold and the air gets stagnant, so ppl tend to use the air diffusers more often; just keep some things in mind, as what's not toxic to us cos OFTEN be toxic to our other family members & we can unknowingly harm or worse.

Please make sure that the essential oils you are burning are not toxic for your pets.
Here is a list of essential oils not to use if you have a dog at home
Anise (Pimpinella anisum)
Birch (Betula)
Bitter Almond (Prunus dulcis)
Boldo (Peumus boldus)
Calamus (Acorus calamus)
Camphor (Cinnamomum camphora)
Cassia (Cassia fistula)
Chenopodium (Chenopodium album)
Cloves (Syzygium aromaticum)
Garlic (Allium sativum)
Goosefoot (Chenopodium murale)
Horseradish (Armoracia rusticana)
Hyssop (Hyssopus sp. with the exception of Decumbens)
Juniper (Juniperus sp. with the exception of Juniper Berry)
Mugwort (Artemisia vulgaris)
Mustard (Brassica juncea)
Oregano (Origanum vulgare)
Pennyroyal (Mentha pulegium)
Red or White Thyme
Rue (Ruta graveolens)
Santolina (Santolina chamaecyparissus)
Sassafras (Sassafras albidum)
Savory (Satureja)
Tansy (Tanacetum vulgare)
Tea Tree Oil (Melaleuca alternifolia)
Terebinth (Pistacia palaestina)
Thuja (Thuja occidentalis)
Wintergreen (Gaultheria procumbens)
Wormwood (Artemisia absinthium)
Yarrow (Achillea millefolium)
Please share this story as it may save someone's precious furry family member!

*Picture of Logan Williams - House of Endless Love cos he's cute.

12/25/2020

Blessed Be!
Thought I would share some still shots of what I'll be working with/on in the next few weeks. Some are spoken for, some will speak; how about to you? These have been and will continue to be, in the night skies, under the moon until this coming New Year.
Intentions are bookmarks, perhaps some door hangers. Any requests?
💜🦚🐲💚

07/11/2020

Looks like we just missed Hydra's 8th birthday! Happy Birthday Lovely Lady! 💜💙

This is our newest family member. She doesn't have a name yet, but as soon as she does, we'll let you know!
She's a Bearded Dragon that was born July 9th.
Her Daddy is a Yellow Sandfire German Giant, and her Mommy is a Red Tiger Citrus.

05/18/2020

Today's card; Breath & more...

05/14/2020

..::| Five of Cups |::..

Listen closer.

05/13/2020

..::| The Turning Point |::.. (aka Judgment)

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05/06/2020

I know it's been quiet but, it's different this time. 💜🦚🐲

04/29/2020

Hi! I'm Jessy, a Professional Human Resiliency Trauma Survivor & Thrivor™ Advocate.
Just checking in. I wanted to share my process, whatever that might be for the day.
I'll be switching found from live & chatting actively (more so, if you're wanna chat w/me!) and just sharing wisdom and paint views.
I hope this is finding your day going well; with deep healing breaths.
Keep being kind! To yourself and to others. Keep as safe as possible & know that I love you.

💜🦚🐲

04/27/2020

But that's just how it is. People cancel on you 79% of the time. It's what you (me, inner critic that needs to s**u) deserve for being ill and having to cancel on them so often. It's what you deserve, for always going on about the same subjects (same critic, same s**u need; my specialized tools & ability to dive into knowledge is not a FLAW). Some people, just like to bitch about not having any options, then take no actions when options are literally, set in front of them, either.
It's a baffling world to me. We're so busy, running around trying to survive, bitching about our inability to thrive, that when the system LITERALLY breaks down for the masses of us, we STILL don't stop and take the time to listen to those of us that have been BREATHING, deeply, intentionally, for almost the entirety of our lives.
We (ME & others!) hold SECRETS - we hold POWER. You claim you want it, then come GET it. Take it BACK. But you need to LISTEN to gain the wisdom. That means, you need to show up. Don't do it for me, show up for yourself. I'm here. I'll just keep myself on repeat; for now. Don't mistake my kindness for your endless timeclock availability though.
💜🦚🐲

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04/26/2020

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04/26/2020

Talking with John V about breaths & Other life tools. Come join us!

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04/25/2020

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04/21/2020

Let me save you LOTS & lots of time. I only ask for 8. Can you please fast forward to the 2:10:25 minute marker?
Thank you. I love you.

Heads up. More clarity coming.
I've known for some time that "facebook" is not good for my overall mental health.
I've for some time now (within this platform), felt like I have for the entirety of my life; when I'm in the center of a crowd, surrounded by people, with no voice, no real chance to make good impacts. Surrounded by causes and needs with little ratio of healing and fulfillment or active TOOL use.
Don't get me wrong, please. FB has been an AMAZING part of my life for almost 10+ years now. The souls that I've collected and WILL CONTINUE to collect, I'm forever with all my breaths, thankful for. No matter how much, how little, how far or how long we've spoken.
If we've 'connected', it's MEANT something to me.
No no, this isn't one of *those* kinds of posts. It's just my way of sharing with you, that I think I'm going to try to take a STEP in the way of the tools that I KNOW I will have better use of (NOT on FB); going back to MY Roots for MY Center Self. Sharing tools with INTERACTION & Art. More specifically, & .
That said, I do see and understand the connections, tools, outlet and opportunity that facebook still holds (for now).
I've also been around long enough, to see, recognize and acknowledge when things are truly, just not serving my life in betterment as a whole.
It's time for a bit more of an adjustment and goal post-changes for me. I'm grateful & appreciative of your kindness & consideration with this actually really difficult decision.
I believe I'm determined you'll be seeing less of me *here*. That doesn't mean I want to lose touch or contact with you; in fact, quite the contrary. If you have ANY ounce of wanting to continue 'live' interactions with me or have ANY "artsy" in you, in ALL of the ways; I'm talking written art, photography, graphic, graphite, crafts, ALL OF IT, consider joining me/us over on dlive.tv or https://www.deviantart.com/jessywithwhy please?
I'll still be sharing here, trying to actively collect as many as I can to bring over xD but THERE, I believe I'll be able to have a more actual impact as I need.
Do our paths continue? Only time will tell! I hope above all, you continue collecting the BEST life tools for you. I hope we're able to remain in touch. I also understand that not everyone is meant to stay in our lives forever. I hope whatever you take from me, it helps you grow in all the ways possible. If I've caused you pain, harm, frustration, angst, energy hostage, x y and or the zs (insert your preferred discourse word here); I apologize. My intent is never ill, though often human and still learning to better be Human.
Please remember, be kind; to yourself & to others. Keep as safe as you're able & if you're not safe right now, reach out to me please & I'll see how I can best help you. I give you my word.

I love you. I see you.

In Solidarity, with love, Jessy Phares 💜🦚🐲

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04/20/2020

These are awesome ThewwArt!
Thank you for including my request 💜🦚🐲

It was great doing this challenge with all my fellow artists. Stay safe and Kind to Each Other.

04/18/2020

(Colorful dragon scale background with deep muted colors behind text that reads:)

Calling All Kindred
I feel like my 'kindred group' of people is somewhere. I'm not
sure where yet. I've been searching for lifetimes now.
I've met some, for sure; here, there; in the shadows of the chats,
the games; the souls that have called out through the wires and
boxes that I now call family. The few I've been blessed with to be
able to occasionally reach out and hug or smile at face to face. The
memories and times together spent, a good memory box to revisit
sometimes.
I cherish them; appreciate, I love them; you, all unconditionally. My
love that is, not my expectations; though I hold none (expectations,
help to keep up), I hold a standard and I give my word.
Where are the rest of my Kindred? The ones that can hear me. The
ones that don't make me feel like I should question my thinking
when and as it happens? The ones that understand the actions
needed behind my words, that I am unable to achieve?
I miss you, my Kindred. I know you're there. I can feel you. I can
ALMOST hear you. I need you, each.
I'm honoring my feelings and letting the tears fall. I'm sharing my
outlets and typing it on my (literal) wall. I've got eyes wide open
and though it may seem, I'm listening with BOTH of my ears; not
currently speaking with my singular mouth.
Deep breaths are my conclusion. To feel and not to get stuck.
Sometimes a time limit is needed, even when it doesn't feel
enough.
Life moves on regardless, to that we have little to no choice;
though our actions, something we can control; our responses, at
the very least.
Take your deep breath; help clear your mind and pain. Clear your
throat to make way for your power; you voice. It's the only chance
that I feel I have, to find my Kindred out there.
Remember Loverlies, my Kindred, "Knowledge is only the
POTENTIAL of Power." Don't let them continue to miseducate. REAL
Power takes ACTION, after the learning.

(purple heart icon, peacock icon, dragon icon)
💜🦚🐲 Jessy with Why

04/17/2020

I hope you have a moment & opportunity
(& safety! -critical-) to breathe, deeply.
Not just a 'basic' deep breath; I mean a
*fundamental* deep, manual breath.

If you get the chance, try this;

Breathe in;
Counting to 9.
(Feel the air travel through your nose
into your throat & further down)
Hold 4.
(Helps re-set your (my) rambling brain)
Exhale count of 7.
(Intentional breath release requires focus on self)
Wait 4.
(Patience forethought, you know there will be more…)
Repeat 3-7. (PRN: as needed)

I know of course, this might not help but
in the off chance that it does for you, or another…

04/15/2020

I'm giving myself deadlines... Time for those ACTIONS as best that *I* can. 💜🦚🐲

You're all set!

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04/09/2020

Hey World! Here's your chance!
What 6 things would YOU like to see Williams - create? This is YOUR chance to see your ideas, come to life.

My requests? Always my favs; dragons, pixies, elves & super sexy Witches. haha!💜🦚🐲

Bout time I jump on the bandwagon. Would luv to put together some randoms. Collecting responses in the comments.