04/06/2026
Are you seeing double? 👀
Introducing our newest "Manniac": Samwell. This gorgeous older fella is a bit set in his ways and tends to struggle with "stranger aggression."
Cat aggression isn't about the cat being mean or bad. It's usually a manifestation of fear, anxiety, or territoriality, and cats rarely receive home training as dogs do. Some love new people, while others are only comfortable with their preferred peeps.
When I experience a fearful or aggressive cat, I try to build trust through positive reinforcement (slow movements, treats, a reassuring and calm voice, and playtime, when possible). My responsibility is to attend to foundational care (food, water, medication, and a clean litter box), without stressing the animal in their safe space.
Samwell, who is a territorial gent, taught me that he likes what he likes and doesn't like what he doesn't. It's just that simple. 😼 In the absence of his owner, he presented with strong stranger aggression. He let me know that he didn't like me being in his space, but I took my time, used all the tools in my Cat Manny toolbox, and made sure he was given basic care. After a few visits, he allowed me greater access, as evidenced by this wonderful photograph of him "loafing" - a sign that he felt comfortable and safe. That gave me all the reassurance that I needed.
Samwell's vocalization (guttural groans) proved that he missed his owner, but he didn't see me as a threat, so fortunately, I was able to provide his care without stressing him.
Should your cat present with aggression, finding a consistent pet sitter can be more challenging. I encourage building rapport over time, in the presence of the owner(s), and adding some form of positive reinforcement -- be it an edible treat, playtime, brushing, or other reproducible reward that can be utilized in your absence.
I learned that Samwell prefers playtime with feathery toys...so we'll be adding those to our bag of tricks before our next visit with him.