
08/02/2023
Love this!
“You look like you’re knitting a sweater!”
Pretty sure in riding (especially dressage) that is one harsh insult, intended to invoke the image of someone who is overly busy - hands pulling left, right, left, right. 😣 Certainly not something we want.
But as a rider, you do need to be *creative* with the contact, to communicate something to your horse. When I was learning to ride, I thought “good hands” meant hands that were perfectly still, doing absolutely nothing.
And then when I was a working student for Lilo Fore, one day she yelled at me out of exasperation, “ELIZA!!!! Good hands doesn’t mean you do NOTHING!! You must USE your hands!!!” (In her thick German accent at a very high volume 😳)
I gradually realized that if your hands are perfectly still, they are not moving WITH the horse, and they are not helping him in any way. And the horses need our help! Over time I got braver about learning to try things with my hands. And yep, I did it wrong a lot at the beginning - too strong, too wimpy, holding too much, giving for too long. But as my seat became more and more independent, I could actually “make” something with my contact.
How do you use your hands effectively without looking like you are knitting? Remember, it's all about fostering a harmonious connection with our horses, one stitch at a time.🧶🐴 😜🧣
Image by Susan DiFelice Design