
07/22/2025
Some days I really get to see the fruits of a lot of hard work that the animals in my care do learning emotional regulation, resilience, and courage. I took this picture in a moment of pride for Rudy, thinking that what happened right before it was going to be the biggest win of our Saturday night walk. But the real hero moment happened about 20 minutes later. Read on for more....
If you zoom in on this picture, you'll see a Beware Of Dog sign and a dog behind the gate. Unfortunately, Rudy likes to walk on the building side of the sidewalk, right next to the buildings. Frequently, this causes issues because people will leave their dogs behind their gates, and they rarely appreciate Rudy suddenly appearing on the other side. I didn't see this dog until he was already barking at Rudy from inches away.
Initially Rudy stiffened as he prepared to yell back. I quickly moved him a few feet backwards and got his attention. Historically, Rudy would have a difficult time disengaging from the still barking dog. Not this time. He immediately connected with me and we co-regulated our nervous systems after the startle. He could still see the other dog the whole time if he wanted to, and the other dog switched from barking to watching us.
After a passerby cleared the path, I invited Rudy to walk past the dog calmly. I expected him to pull toward the dog again, as he often does when dogs pass. But this time he *chose*to increase distance, and we walked to the outside of the tree well. Once we passed peacefully, I posed him for this picture.
Already very proud of my guy, we were nearing the end of our walk when we passed the fenced rec area at Folsom and 21st. An adult was playing with a couple of small children on the soccer court. The smaller child was just doing his own thing closer to the exit in the fence when we passed. Rudy likes to sniff there, so we were moving slowly.
I turned around and suddenly the toddler was on the sidewalk behind us, without a care in the world or an adult supervisor. I tried to tell him to go back inside the court with his adult, but he didn't understand me. He started walking right towards the street. I told him to stop, but again he didn't understand. He stepped off the curb, and I had no choice but to rush towards him and grab him. The thought of Rudy completely left my mind as I watched a car speed past us just as I grabbed the kid. Understandably, the kid got more upset as I gently restrained him while his adult came running to retrieve him. I could see the relief the adult had when he scooped the child up and explained to me in Spanish that the child was looking for his mom up the block. I nodded in acknowledgement and laughed off one of those crazy child-rearing moments that we're all grateful had a happy ending.
So what was Rudy doing during all of this? He followed me without hesitation and performed the auto-sit we've practiced around strangers for years. He sat quietly through all of it. He required no management from me so I could focus on preventing that kid from being hit by that car. And then we finished our walk without any further excitement.
Good boy, Rudy!!