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Built on thoughtful development, correct basics, and sound horsemanship, we focus on patient, educated training that produces confident young horses, successful competition mounts, and riders who understand how to bring out the best in their partners.

11/01/2026

A horse can be making progress without getting any closer to your original plan.

That’s something we sometimes have a hard time appreciating.

We make plans for our horses. We imagine where they’ll be in six months, what they’ll be doing next year, and what we hope they’ll eventually become.

And then life has a few things to say about the timeline…

Maybe they need more time to develop physically. Maybe their confidence takes longer to build than we expected. Maybe something we thought would come easily turns out to be a challenge. Maybe something completely unrelated got in the way.

And suddenly, progress doesn’t look much like the plan we started with…

But that doesn’t mean it isn’t happening.

A horse who is learning to trust, finding better balance, becoming more comfortable in their work, or simply growing into themselves IS making progress, even if none of those things check a box on the schedule we originally imagined.

I think one of the more difficult parts of developing horses is learning to separate our expectations from their needs.

Because sometimes the most productive thing we can do is stop trying to get back on schedule and pay attention to the horse in front of us.

The plan is something WE made. The progress belongs to the horse.

And I’d much rather have a horse who’s thriving on a different timeline than one who’s struggling to keep up with mine. ❤️

11/01/2026

The leaves are changing, the trees are turning all sorts of beautiful colors, and the babies are getting a little less baby. 🍂❤️

There’s something bittersweet about watching the seasons change when you’re raising young horses.

It seems like just yesterday they were all legs, fuzzy faces, and figuring out how the world works. And suddenly they’re a little (a lot) taller, a little more coordinated, a little more confident in themselves.

Every season brings a new version of them.

And you only get to know each version of them once.

So here’s to pretty fall afternoons, growing babies, and appreciating the baby moments while they’re still young. ❤️🍁

10/30/2026

What a privilege it is to know them at so many phases of their lives 💞
Here’s my own
Ruby’s Rose CSH
Don Quichot x MissKitMambo
Pictured here as a yearling and as a 3yo
I cannot wait to see her continue to grow into a mature mare (and hopefully someday into a GP horse 😇😉)

10/29/2026

Your horse life is allowed to look different from someone else’s. ❤️

Some people have Grand Prix goals.

Some people have “I’d just like to walk around on my horse and enjoy the sunshine” goals.

Some people dream of breeding the next great sport horse, some want to jump bigger jumps, some want to explore trails, and some are perfectly content spending an afternoon grooming a horse they have no intention of riding.

And I think that’s wonderful.

I have some pretty ambitious goals for my own horses and my career. I love training, competing, and seeing just how far we might be able to go together.

But I don’t think that makes my version of loving horses any more meaningful than someone else’s.

I hope the person chasing a Grand Prix dream finds just as much joy in the pursuit as the person whose favorite part of the week is a leisurely walk around the farm.

I hope they’re both equally excited to pull into the barn driveway.

I hope they both go home smiling, thinking about how lucky they are to have horses in their lives.

And I hope neither feels the need to justify their version of happiness to the other.

Because at the end of the day, I don’t think the level of our ambition should determine the amount of joy we’re allowed to find in our horses.

As long as we’re being kind to them in the pursuit of what makes us happy, let’s not be terribly concerned with how differently that happiness might look from one person to the next.

There’s room for all of us to love horses in our own way.

10/26/2026

Being halfway over a young horse can look a little odd if you’re someone who doesn’t start youngsters, or someone who simply does it differently.

But let me tell you one of the less obvious reasons I find this so valuable.

First, the obvious one.

I’m a whole lot less committed to being ON the horse, which means I’m a whole lot more capable of uncommitting to the bit. 😆

If s**t gets wild, I can slide right off the side and land back in a place I’ve already taught the horse how to relax and bend around, standing right beside the shoulder.

Pretty handy, if you ask me.

BUT.

There’s another reason I like doing this myself instead of simply hanging things off the sides of my young horses to get them accustomed to weight, movement, or pressure.

I want my horses to have FEEL.

Tom Curtin kindly reminded me recently of something Ray Hunt always encouraged people to consider.

A feel following a feel.

And I think that’s such an important concept.

Because feel is a two-way street.

When I’m halfway over a young horse, I can absolutely FEEL what they’re feeling.

I can feel the slightest change in their balance, the moment they start to tighten, the hesitation before they get stuck, or the instant they begin to soften and let go.

But here’s the really important part.

They can feel ME, too.

Their tightness can meet my calm.

Their hesitation can meet a little feel from me asking them to unlock their feet and move.

Their uncertainty can meet something steady, familiar, and reassuring.

And when they offer a change, I can recognize it and respond to it right then.

We’re having a conversation.

Not just teaching the horse to tolerate something happening to them, but teaching them to notice, respond, and participate in what’s happening between us.

And I’m learning just as much about them in the process.

That’s one of the things I love most about starting young horses.

So much of the really important work happens in moments that don’t look particularly impressive from the outside.

Sometimes it’s just a person hanging halfway off the side of a horse.

But to me, there’s a whole lot more going on than meets the eye.

And remember what I said the other day about different approaches?

I’m not saying you have to do it this way. I’m sharing the why behind what works for me.

What works for me might not work for you.

And that’s okay. I’ll be here dangling off one side and then the other still 😆

10/25/2026

“What works for me might not work for you.” - Lee Smith

And… you know what? That’s okay.

I think sometimes we get so caught up in defending the way WE do things that we forget there can be more than one reasonable way to accomplish something. After all, most of us are doing things the way we do them because we genuinely believe it’s the best way.

Now, I’m not going to tell you that everyone is always right in their own way.

Sometimes someone IS right and someone IS wrong.

Sometimes one approach is objectively better for the horse, and sometimes there are practices that simply shouldn’t be defended in the name of personal preference.

But here’s the thing…

Even if I’m right about the way I do something, that doesn’t necessarily mean you can do it that way.

We have different skill sets, weaknesses, resources, horses, and circumstances.

Something that works beautifully in my hands might be completely ineffective in yours. And something that makes perfect sense for my program might be entirely impractical for yours.

That doesn’t automatically make either of us a bad horseman.

I think the important thing is being able to distinguish between a difference in approach and a difference in principles.

I’m not particularly interested in arguing over methods simply because they’re different from mine.

But I AM interested in whether the horse is being treated fairly, whether the risks are being managed appropriately, and whether the decisions being made are grounded in reality rather than ego, convenience, or wishful thinking.

Because at the end of the day, I think good horsemanship requires us to be honest about what the horse needs, what we’re capable of providing, and whether the choices we’re making are actually serving the horse.

And so long as we’re genuinely considering the horse first and making morally sound decisions based on reality?

I’m completely comfortable doing it my way while you do it yours.

You might be surprised by how many people can’t say the same. 😉

10/25/2026

Hate to break it to you, but your horse probably sucks at leading.

It’s okay. Some of mine do, too. 😂

But if you’ve ever even BEEN IN THE COMPANY of a horse who truly. Leads. FABULOUSLY.

Then you know.

You KNOW.

And you know that approximately 99.9999999% of horses are actually really terrible at it.

I’m not talking about the horses who drag you across the parking lot or require a water ski rope to get from the barn to the pasture.

I’m talking about the perfectly fine, reasonably well-behaved horses whose owners would confidently tell you they lead great.

Except they don’t. 😂

They walk too far behind. A little too far ahead. Drift into your personal space like a shopping cart with one bad wheel.

They stop when you don’t. Don’t stop when you do. Turn corners like a tractor trailer. Respond in 3-5 business days.

But a horse who leads BEAUTIFULLY?

An absolute DREAM.

They are sharp. They match your pace, maintain their position, stop and turn with you, and pay attention without constant reminders.

It’s an art form.

And while we’re at it, a whole lot of PEOPLE could stand to improve their leading skills, too.

Good timing, clear communication, consistency, and AWARENESS of the horse are just as important on the human end of the rope.

Because there’s a huge difference between a horse who can be led and one who is genuinely wonderful at leading.

And an equally big difference between someone who can hold a lead rope and someone who knows how to USE one.

10/21/2026

I don’t think every horse needs to be your forever horse to be an incredibly important horse.

I think sometimes we get caught up in the idea that the ultimate expression of loving a horse is keeping them forever.

And don’t get me wrong, there is something really special about the horses who spend decades with us.

But I also think there’s something really special about the ones who don’t.

Some horses come into our lives, teach us something valuable, and then move on to do the same for someone else.

The horse who helped one rider find their confidence might be exactly the horse another rider needs to find theirs.

And there's something really special about knowing a horse you loved and developed still has so much more to give, even if it isn't with you.

I think sometimes we feel like we need to justify moving on from a horse.

As though deciding to sell one means we didn’t love them enough, didn’t appreciate what they gave us, or somehow failed to make the relationship work.

But horses and people change.

Our goals change. Our circumstances change. Our abilities change. And sometimes the things that made a horse and rider a wonderful match at one point in time simply aren’t the same anymore.

That doesn’t mean the relationship wasn’t valuable.

And it certainly doesn’t mean the horse wasn’t loved.

I think there’s a particular kind of satisfaction in watching a horse you cared about go on to be exactly what someone else was looking for.

To see them loved by another person, accomplishing different things, having new experiences, and continuing to be an important part of someone else’s story.

Of course, selling a horse comes with responsibility. Finding the right situation matters enormously, and not every horse is suited to every home.

But I don’t think we should confuse keeping a horse forever with doing right by them.

Sometimes doing right by a horse means recognizing that someone else can give them a wonderful next chapter.

And sometimes doing right by ourselves means being willing to acknowledge that we’re ready for a different chapter, too.

Not every horse is meant to be your forever horse.

The length of time you own a horse isn’t necessarily a measure of how much that horse mattered.

Sometimes a horse can be a short chapter in your life and still be a really, really important part of your story.
📸 Southern Willow Photography

10/19/2026

We don’t expect our trainers to be experts at trimming and shoeing horses, and we probably wouldn’t ask them to shoe the horse.

So why, as trainers and horse owners, would we expect our farriers to train our horses for us?

Here’s a little video of me working on six-month-old Veri’s feet with a rasp. ❤️

Not because I have any intention of becoming a farrier. 😂

But because I DO have every intention of making sure she knows how to be a good citizen when the farrier comes to visit.

Picking up feet, holding them up for increasingly long periods of time, learning to balance on three legs, getting comfortable with the motion and sound of a rasp, and understanding that a little patience is expected of her.

Those are all things we can practice long before a young horse needs to stand for a proper trim.

And they’re things we can practice in short, low-pressure sessions, where nobody is in a hurry and we can make the experience as positive as possible.

I think sometimes we forget that our farriers have a difficult enough job without also being expected to teach the horse how to behave for it.

Their job is to take care of the feet.

Our job is to prepare the horse to let them.

And while even the best-prepared youngster might have an occasional baby-horse moment, there’s a big difference between a horse who’s imperfect because they’re learning and a horse who’s dangerously not prepared.

Good horsemanship is also about making the jobs of the other professionals who care for our horses easier, safer, and more pleasant.

10/18/2026

I am a firm believer that horses should have lives outside of their careers.

I love a talented horse. I love developing young horses, setting ambitious goals, and seeing what they might be capable of accomplishing.

But I also think it’s important to remember that our horses have absolutely no idea what their résumés say.

They don’t know what their breeding suggests they should be good at. They don’t know what level they’re supposed to reach, what scores they’ve earned, or how much money we’ve invested in their futures.

And I think they deserve lives that are about more than those things.

I want my horses to have friends. I want them to spend time in fields, play, explore, scratch each other’s withers, and occasionally make questionable decisions about which mud puddle looks the most inviting.

I want the young ones to have time to be young. To be a little scraggly. Have a few scrapes on them.

And I want the older ones to have lives where their entire sense of routine doesn’t revolve around being ridden.

Because as much as we love these horses for what they can do, I think we have a responsibility to remember that they are living, feeling, social animals first.

Their athletic careers are something we have chosen for them.

Their need to be horses isn’t.

And I don’t think those two things have to compete with one another.

We can have big ambitions for our horses AND give them lives that are rich in experiences that have absolutely nothing to do with advancing those ambitions.

In fact, I think those things often complement each other beautifully.

I hope the horses in my program become successful athletes. I hope they go on to do wonderful things, make their owners proud, and have long, fulfilling careers.

But I also hope they have horse friends that they love.

That they get to roll in the sunshine.

That they spend plenty of hours doing absolutely nothing sport related. Doing the only things horses were actually designed to do… walk around in groups and eat forage 😆

Because a horse can have an impressive résumé and still be missing some pretty important parts of a good life.

And at the end of the day, I want to be proud of more than what my horses accomplish.

I want to be proud of the lives they get to live 24/7, not just when I’m with them.

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