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Built on thoughtful development, correct basics, and sound horsemanship, we focus on patient, educated training that produces confident young horses, successful competition mounts, and riders who understand how to bring out the best in their partners.

05/31/2026

Something that makes me an insane?

The suggestion that if a horse’s back is tired, the solution is to sit on it harder and call it needing to accept the seat.

Horses’ backs are a bit like suspension bridges. They are designed to transfer force from one end to the other, not to be strongest right in the middle where our butt happens to live.

When those muscles become fatigued, the answer is not more pressure, more driving, more “making them accept the seat.”

The idea that we can coerce already tired muscles into working better by digging in and pounding on them is actually absurd when you stop and think about it.

If your shoulders were exhausted from a workout, would someone weighting them even more improve the situation?

Certainly not.

Strength absolutely matters, and horses need to be developed appropriately to carry riders. But there is a very big difference between building strength and aggressively overwhelming fatigue.

Good training requires us to recognize the difference.

Sometimes the answer is education.

Sometimes the answer is rider fitness. (Someone who sits better is easier to carry.)

And sometimes the answer is simply that at this moment, this day, the horse is tired.

Not resistant.

Not lazy.

Tired.

You’d be surprised how many people encourage punishing horses when they fatigue.

The art of simply showing up.I think one of the most underrated skills in horses is learning to show up consistently, ev...
05/31/2026

The art of simply showing up.

I think one of the most underrated skills in horses is learning to show up consistently, even when conditions aren’t perfect.

Now, I’m not suggesting we ignore our bodies, ride through illness, or pretend there isn’t a time and place for rest.

But I do think we sometimes underestimate how much can be accomplished on an imperfect day.

A day when you only have X minutes, when you’re a little tired, when the horse feels a little awkward.

The days when you don’t feel like you’re at your best.

If we wait for perfect conditions, perfect weather, perfect motivation, perfect timing, and perfect circumstances, we’ll let everything pass us by.

Some of the most meaningful progress happens on the meh days.

The days where nobody feels brilliant, but everyone shows up anyway.

Because consistency has a funny way of compounding… and often, simply showing up is enough to keep things moving forward.

Sambatini H2O Fürst Nymphenburg x BambaBred and owned by Kendra Hansis
05/29/2026

Sambatini H2O
Fürst Nymphenburg x Bamba
Bred and owned by Kendra Hansis

One thing I think all horses deserve more of is the opportunity to feel successful.I think sometimes, especially with ta...
05/28/2026

One thing I think all horses deserve more of is the opportunity to feel successful.

I think sometimes, especially with talented horses, it becomes very tempting to keep raising the standard every time they offer something good. They understand one thing, so we immediately ask for the next thing. And then the next.

But confidence grows when they feel like they can find answers and feel like their effort worked.

They start seeking the right answer instead of worrying about getting something wrong.

That does not mean we stop having standards or stop developing them.

It just means we remember that learning tends to happen best when the horse feels like a participant in the conversation instead of a constant recipient of criticism.

A horse who feels proud of themselves is a pretty powerful thing.

05/26/2026

It’s safer that way!

Build the horse, not just the movement.It’s easy to get focused on achieving a specific movement, riding a certain circl...
05/26/2026

Build the horse, not just the movement.

It’s easy to get focused on achieving a specific movement, riding a certain circle size, nailing a transition, or otherwise checking boxes in the training.

But good development asks us to think about the whole horse.

Not just ticking boxes.

The shoeing that helps them stay comfortable and balanced.

The feeding program that supports the work we’re asking them to do.

The bodywork that helps them use themselves and recover well.

The turnout that lets them be horses.

The field trips, trail rides, standing tied quietly, loading, seeing the world, and the million other experiences that may not seem directly relevant to their “job” but absolutely contribute to who they become.

Because we are not just building collections of movements.

We are building athletes.

And even more importantly, we are caring for individual beings.

The horses who tend to hold up best, both physically and mentally, are rarely the ones whose entire existence revolves around drilling the job.

Ladybug’s maternal half sister!
05/26/2026

Ladybug’s maternal half sister!

The under-appreciated middle…I think more and more people are starting to understand that we cannot rush the beginning o...
05/25/2026

The under-appreciated middle…

I think more and more people are starting to understand that we cannot rush the beginning of a horse’s under saddle career (Or at least I’m choosing to believe that 😆) so they savor the baby phase.

And of course everyone loves the polished upper-level horse.

But if we don’t learn to appreciate the middle… we miss out on so much of what makes horses special.

Say you start a horse lightly as a 3yo.

Maybe they’re a Training/First Level 4yo.

Maybe a First or Second Level 5yo.

And so on.

The youngest age a horse is even allowed to do Grand Prix is 8.

And there are very, very (very, very) few 8-year-old Grand Prix horses out there.

So even if you have a prodigal horse who stays beautifully on track their entire career (funny thought, right? 😆), you are still looking at YEARS of middle.

Years between the first 90 days under saddle and your first canter up the centerline.

The sometimes awkward, strength-building, skill-learning, confidence-growing years.
The “they understand, but cannot quite organize it yet” years.

Those years deserve appreciation too regardless of the age your horse is when you’re in them.

Because if we are always fixated on the beginning or obsessing over the end goal, we miss a huge portion of the actual life we get to spend with these horses.

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