08/16/2025
Working with Fearful or Reactive Dogs: Why Safety and Comfort Come First!
I had a great session with a fearful dog today, and wanted to share a bit about why I make the choices I do in these sessions. Pic below it just for fun, none of the dogs in the picture were in the session.
I want to take a moment to talk about working with dogs who feel uneasy around new people, other dogs, or unfamiliar environments. My top priority in every session is to make sure your dog feels safe and comfortable. That’s not just for the dog’s sake—it’s for everyone’s safety and for the training to truly work.
It’s tempting to push ahead, get close to triggers, or “test” progress by seeing if the old behaviors (barking, lunging, growling) still happen. I totally understand the curiosity. While I do need to see these behaviors during my initial assessment, once we start training, our goal is to prevent them—not provoke them.
Why? Because every time your dog reacts with fear or aggression, they’re practicing the very behaviors we want to change. Even more importantly, we want your dog to start feeling good and safe around things that used to scare them. If training sessions stay calm and pleasant, your dog learns that these once-scary situations are actually no big deal. This is how real, lasting progress happens.
We do this by working at a distance and intensity where your dog can remain calm and make good choices. A successful session often looks “boring”—your dog is relaxed, focused, and not reacting. That’s exactly what we want! If we move too fast or too close, we risk making things worse instead of better.
Management tools like leashes, gates, and barriers are absolutely essential. They aren’t just for your dog’s safety—they’re for mine, too! Please don’t drop the leash or remove the gate, even if things seem to be going well. I’ve had close calls when a dog’s leash was dropped prematurely. Maybe we've covered teaching your dog that a person walking around the living room is no big deal, but we haven't taught the dog that a sudden motion, sound, or picking up an item is equally benign. We have lots to work on before we establish that your pup feels safe in any given situation.
If I ask for management, it’s because I want everyone to stay safe while we help your dog learn to relax and thrive. Training is a team effort, and your partnership makes all the difference!