05/04/2025
I'm at my breaking point. As so many of you know, in 2017, I had breast cancer. It was low grade, supposed to be all taken care of after 5 surgeries. But hell no. Despite going above and beyond what my breast surgeon, plastic surgeon, oncologist, and the whole team in Muskegon ask me to do, i went above and beyond. This was a tiny 3cm tumor removed along with me having a double mastectomy, so I never had to worry about this returning. Let's not forget the lymph node removal, which was 100% clear. I was told that unless the tumor was 5 cm because I was triple positive, I didn't even need chemo or radiation. And the chemo pills were not worth the pain they caused my joints. But my doctor was fine with this because the tumor was so tiny.
Do not ever take for granted that your doctors know what they are talking about because they don't all know....I'm now 7 years later living my best life with my family loving on my grandkids. They are the newest being 3 years old and bam slap me in my flipping face and world. Just tip everything I thought was going to be upside down and backward. Because on April 4th, I found out I have Stage 4 uncureable cancer. Yep, my life is cut way shorter than anyone wants to hear. I'm pi**ed, I'm furious, Im beside myself, I'm sad very sad. I have 16 weeks of different poison just so I can live maybe a couple of years. Well, tell you what trusting is all ready hard for me because of doctors. And it just got way worse. So, no more puppies, which was a huge part of my world. You know making people happy like people like to be. I am asking for anyone looking for an adult to reach out via messages. My dogs deserve nothing but the best. We'll being stuck where I'm not with them isn't the best for them. Sorry for the big rant, but everything just came rolling out of my head tonight. It's the sadest, worst thing I have had to do in the past 17 years.
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