
08/19/2025
This past weekend, my family and I took a trip to the mountains near Fish Lake, Utah. I took my main mare Freya, as well as her 3-year-old filly Zaya. Zaya has been ponied one or two other times over the past couple of years on trails, but overall has very limited trail experience.
On the first day of our trip, Zaya was ponied by my husband, which she handled extremely well. She went through water and over dead fall as well as through lots of rocky footing, and steep terrain. The next day I decided she was handling it all so well that I put her 12th ride on her on the mountain. I knew I had enough of the basics put into her that if I needed to handle an iffy situation that I could. I also knew that she is a fairly emotionally-balanced and well-regulated horse.
At one point during her 13th ride, she leaped over a big patch of rocks. She was wearing saddlebags as well as a coat tied to the saddle, and they bounced quite a bit when she jumped the rocks. In the past I've had other horses struggle quite a bit with the flopping of saddlebags, chinks, and more. After her leap, she immediately came back to a walk and was not phased in the least about jumping for the first time with a rider on her back, or any of the things flapping, bumping, and making noise. I was quite pleased with her ability to manage herself.
For anyone who knows much about me, you know that I am a fairly cautious horsewoman. I will not get on a horse that I do not feel is safe or is willing to communicate with me in a pinch. The fact that I was willing to get on this filly in dangerous country where I could get very hurt if she did anything stupid shows how much I trust her. I'm so grateful that she showed her trust in me as well. And it isn't blind trust, that trust has been earned. We both know each other's habits, skills, and mannerisms. We have a rapport and a language between us that makes doing new things enjoyable and not dangerous or scary. This is why I value connection with horses so much! Connection isn't just about cuddling with your horse in their paddock, it's about how that connection amplifies your experiences with a feeling and a knowing that you will both turn to each other in any situation.
I sure love you Zaya! ❤️ I can't wait to see where the future takes us!