06/01/2025
🚫 NO FACES NEAR FACES (and no exceptions!)
I say this a lot—because it prevents bites and protects children and dogs.
I work with families helping dogs adjust to life with young kids. One of the most important rules I share is this:
Never let a child’s face get close to a dog’s face.
Why? Because dogs don’t communicate face-to-face like we do. They often find it confrontational, intimidating, or confusing. And if they feel uncomfortable or cornered, they may use distance-increasing signals—like growling or air snapping—to say, “Please back off.”
But if a child’s face is close at that moment? The result could be a bite to the face. And that’s not a risk worth taking. 😢
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🛑 What This Means in Practice:
• No lying on the sofa with your head next to the dog’s.
• No leaning over the dog to kiss them.
• No toddlers popping up to face height on a sofa.
• No crawling toward a dog resting on their bed.
• No selfies with your face right beside theirs.
• No “but she loves it!” exceptions.
Even the sweetest, calmest, most patient dog has boundaries.
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*this was shared from a fellow trainer*
⚠️ A Personal Lesson (The Hard Way)
Last year, I ignored my own rule.
I fell asleep with my head resting on my northern inuit’s chest—she’s cuddly, she loves the kids, and I thought it was safe. Then she woke up and did a huge, open-mouthed sneeze (she’s a dramatic sneezer!). One of her massive canines went right into the top of my scalp.
Blood everywhere. It looked like a crime scene.
It was just a sneeze—completely accidental—but it hurt me, it hurt her tooth, and it could have been my face. That moment reminded me how easily something can go wrong even with a loving dog.
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🧒 Our Kids Copy What We Do
It’s not enough to tell kids not to put their faces near the dog—we have to model that behavior ourselves.
Even if the dog “loves it.” Even if they’re calm. Even if you’ve always done it. No faces near faces. No exceptions. Not even for me.
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✅ Simple Rule. Big Impact.
So please—whether you’re a parent, dog owner, or both:
NO faces near faces. No exceptions.
It’s one of the simplest ways to keep everyone safe—and keep trust strong between your dog and your family.