10/06/2020
Seriously could not be happier to have my little dynamic duo back together. ♥️
This transition has not been an easy one but we were prepared for that when we made the decision to move here here. So far, she has done pretty well with Connor ignoring her entirely. If he gets too close or if she perceives him as a threat to me, she gets pretty on edge and that’s where I have to really keep an eye on her. We have had a couple nipping situations - one of which I take full responsibility for because I wasn’t home and he needed to take her out to potty. I told him to put a leash on her, really not thinking she would nip at him and I was 100% wrong. However, I don’t blame her because I didn’t set her up for success with that. We are hopeful that with time and space (and TONS of patience), she will come around and start to feel comfortable with Connor.
What we’ve been doing thus far with Connor:
- Completely ignoring her - not even looking I’m her direction, not talking to her and not approaching her
- Having Connor feed her this entails putting her food bowl down at a safe distance and then walking away, hoping that she will connect him with positive things like food
- Tossing treats in her direction while not looking or speaking to her
- Allowing her to approach, whether on the bed or just around the house but not touching her at all when she does
Of course Harlee is 100% comfortable with me and I can do all of the above and then some but until she learns to trust Connor at least a little bit, this has been our process. We are hoping that by doing so, she will learn that he is not trying to get her and that she can come up to him freely. If you have ever dealt with something similar, please leave tips below!
Also! I will be writing a static post regarding and our experience with them, detailing Harlee’s issues end how they progressed along with the experience of other APK puppy parents. The intent is to be educational/informational and NOT to bash this breeder. I have always been very transparent with our followers and my only goal is to educate and prevent others from enduring what we have. If you want to follow along (continued in comments)