
05/28/2025
"You believe someone not because you have no doubts about them. Belief is not the absence of doubt. You believe someone because you don't have enough doubts about them." - Malcom Gladwell.
I get it; you were told the force was necessary. You watched the TV show featuring someone pushing a dog physically around, and were told that was what that dog required because there were no other options. You saw the TikTok video of the guy in paramilitary gear holding a remote while an overactive, stressed out Malinois did a flashy heel ... and you heard the voice over explaining that 'not all dogs....' You were sold the idea that in order to help your dog, you were going to have to hurt them first.
And it didn't sit right with you.
But this was the expert, right? This person had a large following, a tv show on a major network, they were sitting in front of professional looking podcast equipment bought off amazon... They have a Malinois, a breed of dog hyper bred for extreme biddability but surely that makes them hard to work with right? And yet... You didn't think it was right. In your gut you had doubts. In your heart you knew it wasn't right to hurt your dog to force them into compliance. Somewhere inside you knew there had to be a better way.
There is. There absolutely is. There is no need to use force, fear, aversion or physical punishment to change the behavior of your dog. Yes, even your dog who has threatened to eat the neighbor on a regular basis. Yes even your dog who can't see another dog on the street with out losing his mind. Yes even your dog who has never sat still a moment in his life and is driving you both crazy. Yes even your dog who hides under the bed and almost never comes out. Yes even your dog who chases everything that moves. Yes even your dog who can't spend a single second alone. Yes even your dog who got dismissed from daycare. Yes even your dog who your entire family thinks is a menace. All dogs - every dog- can be helped through fear free progressive reinforcement driven practices with out every having to resort to force. I promise.