07/12/2025
Calm is a learned skill. We are doing decompression work with Oliver. He is GREAT at working, following, cuddling and finding things to do but he doesn’t have a great “off” switch. This is a great activity to practice with your dog. Oliver has had all his needs met and he is back tied so he isn’t able to wonder away from his bed. I am not putting him in any sort of spoken command, simply ignoring the whining, the anxiousness about not being able to follow me around and letting him get comfortable with being bored. Resume your lifestyle as normal.This overall process took about 30 minutes of him pacing and not settling to a calm resting state. the more you practice this the faster they will learn to settle.Only start this activity if you are committed to seeing it through, patience is key. You don’t want to release them when they are not fully settled.