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Sit Stay Heal Sit Stay Heal - A Community Resource for Canine Wellbeing, supporting the healing of dogs and their humans. Not a business — just friends helping friends.

Rooted in lived experience and mutual aid, we honor the animal-human bond with care and connection. Breed Experience:
Mixed Breed
American Pitbull Terrier
Doberman Pinscher
Pug
Labrador Retriever
Golden Retriever
German Shepard
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Chihuahua
Boxer
American Staffordshire Terrier
Siberian Husky
Australian Shepherd
Rat Terrier
Collie
Beagle
Mountain Cur
Great Dane
Saint Bernards
Bloodhound
Cava

lier King Charles Spaniel
Eskimo Spitz (American Eskimo Dog)
Brittany
Rottweiler

I invite us to see ourselves not as defective but as in-process masterpieces, being shaped by a force that wants to recycle pain into purpose. Let’s become, together, the ones we have been waiting for.

A great way to teach connection and loose leash walking
08/25/2025

A great way to teach connection and loose leash walking

1. FightCanines: Growling, snapping, or biting when cornered.Primates: Chimp attacking a rival after being challenged.Hu...
08/25/2025

1. Fight

Canines: Growling, snapping, or biting when cornered.

Primates: Chimp attacking a rival after being challenged.

Humans: Online flame wars, clapping back in comments, subtweeting angrily, or posting “call-outs.”

2. Flight

Canines: Bolting out of the yard during fireworks, hiding under the bed.

Primates: Monkey fleeing into trees at the first sign of a predator.

Humans: Blocking, unfriending, ghosting someone in DMs, leaving a group chat suddenly.

3. Freeze

Canines: Body stiffens, tail tucked, silent and immobile when approached.

Primates: A macaque goes statue-still to avoid provoking a dominant male.

Humans: Reading a message but leaving it on seen, not replying, avoiding confrontation, “lurking” without engaging.

4. Collapse / Submit

Canines: Rolling onto the back, submissive urination.

Primates: Crouching, lowering head, or “presenting” to dominant individuals.

Humans: Over-apologizing in group chats, saying “lol” or “haha” to soften tension, going quiet to keep peace.

5. Please & Appease

Canines: Play bows, licking, or nudging to reduce conflict.

Primates: Grooming a dominant ape after tension.

Humans: Sending “👍” or heart reacts to posts you don’t like, over-complimenting, tagging people to win favor, people-pleasing comments.

6. Attach / Cry for Help

Canines: Puppy whining or pawing at caretaker when anxious.

Primates: Infant gorilla crying and clinging when separated from mother.

Humans: Posting vague “sad” statuses or stories (“some people really let you down…”), messaging multiple friends at once for reassurance, trauma-dumping in group chats.

When his dog “Pump” sneezed in his face to wake him, the author thought it was just a quirky interruption. But science s...
08/25/2025

When his dog “Pump” sneezed in his face to wake him, the author thought it was just a quirky interruption. But science says otherwise: in Africa, wild dogs sneeze to take a vote — when enough sneezes are cast, the whole pack rises together to hunt. It’s not rudeness, it’s democracy. Pump’s sneeze was the same instinct echoing through her DNA: a simple, ancient signal saying “let’s go, it’s time to move together.”

Embracing the pain with new insight and perspective is sometimes healing…give it a try. I’m proud of you. Keep going - k...
08/24/2025

Embracing the pain with new insight and perspective is sometimes healing…give it a try.

I’m proud of you. Keep going - keep growing.

Someone at SitStayHeal loves you (or your dog) and there is nothing you can do about it. Here to remind you that when ba...
08/17/2025

Someone at SitStayHeal loves you (or your dog) and there is nothing you can do about it. Here to remind you that when balance is lost prepare to roll with it. You can resist the ground and the inevitable impact and end up with a fracture or you can accept the fall - prepare to roll - and let the earth embrace you and absorb your impact. You may just end up with some free ac in the crotchal region of your pants and get a few chuckles out of it.

Hard to watch. Good to know - that some horses haven’t gotten the radical compassion force free memo.
08/14/2025

Hard to watch. Good to know - that some horses haven’t gotten the radical compassion force free memo.

08/14/2025

Modern day dog work without acknowledging the land and the history of all it's people is shameless cultural appropriation. Prove me wrong.

1. The Hypothesis

"Clicker training," as it’s known today, may be an unintentional cultural echo of indigenous and traditional practices that used sharp, discrete sounds for communication with animals — both domestic and wild. While modern trainers attribute the click to behaviorist timing tools developed in labs and marine parks, its underlying auditory mechanism may draw on patterns humans have been using for millennia to shape, guide, or warn animals.

In other words: The “click” is not an invention — it’s a rediscovery of something ancient, re-wrapped in the language of psychology and sold as a novel method.

2. Pre-Pryor Clicker Training

Skinner Era: The earliest clicker-like conditioned reinforcers were mechanical sounds (e.g., metal cricket toys, ballpoint pen clicks) used by Keller & Marian Breland — both of whom studied under Skinner in the 1940s. They applied these sounds to train everything from chickens to porpoises long before Karen Pryor popularized them in the 1980s.

Marine Mammal Work: At Sea Life Park in Hawaii, Bob Bailey, Marian Breland Bailey, and others were already using whistles and click devices for dolphins and sea lions because the sound carried well in noisy environments and underwater.

Pryor’s Role: Karen Pryor didn’t invent the concept — she helped market and translate it for the pet-owning public in accessible books like Don’t Shoot the Dog!.

3. Indigenous Use of Clicks, Percussion, and Other Sharp Sounds

Human cultures have used concise, high-contrast sounds to signal across distances and across species for tens of thousands of years.

Clicks in Speech & Nonverbal Sound

Khoisan languages (Southern Africa) use click consonants (alveolar, lateral, dental) as part of everyday speech — producing high-pitched percussive bursts that carry far and cut through environmental noise.

Indigenous Australian hunters have documented use of tongue clicks to direct dogs and signal to each other without scaring prey.

San people of the Kalahari reportedly use non-linguistic clicks as hunting cues, not just as spoken consonants.

Percussive Signals for Animal Communication

Rock Clacking: Plains tribes in North America sometimes used stone clacks to signal horse herds or coordinate hunting drives.

Drum Beats: Drums in Amazonian and African contexts carried not just human messages but also acted as environmental cues animals could associate with food availability or human presence.

Antler Scraping: Among circumpolar peoples, scraping antlers or bones on certain surfaces was used to imitate animal sounds (e.g., moose, caribou) to attract them — but could also serve as a location cue to dogs or fellow hunters.

Whistled Languages: In places like the Canary Islands (Silbo Gomero) and Oaxaca, whistles mimic speech and direct both people and animals across long distances.

4. Primate and Cross-Species Relevance

Primate Studies: Wild chimpanzees produce mouth pops and wood-knocking sounds to signal others, especially in hunting contexts.

Domestication Contexts: Shepherds across Europe, the Middle East, and Central Asia have long used mouth clicks, tongue trills, and short whistles to direct livestock and herding dogs — effectively “clicker training” without the plastic box.

5. Why the Sound Works (Underwater & On Land)

Physics: A sharp, broadband sound (click, clap, clank) has a rapid onset and no drawn-out tail, which makes it easy for animal brains to pair with a preceding behavior in time.

Marine Application: Underwater, clicks travel farther and faster than low-pitched sounds, which is why dolphins use them for echolocation — and why early marine trainers favored metal clickers or whistles.

6. The Appropriation Angle

If we accept that:

Indigenous and traditional peoples used sharp, discrete sounds to cue animals for thousands of years,

These sounds served similar purposes — timing, location cues, attention-getting — as modern clicker training,

The lab-based “invention” of clicker training ignored or erased this lineage,

…then the “clicker” in modern force-free training could be viewed as a repackaging of an ancient interspecies communication tool — stripped of its cultural context and rebranded under Western behavioral science.

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08/14/2025

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