
08/12/2025
If it wasn't for Brutus, I wouldn't be where I am today. He has taught me sooooo much! Ok, COVID had a part in it too. If COVID hadn't shut everything down, who knows where Brutus and I would be now. I don't know that it would be here.
I was on a mission to figure out what i needed to do to make sure he and I lived our best life. With no other options, I dove in to classes and attended conferences virtually. I picked the things that felt right to me, using various skills from various people and hoped for the best.
Thanks to Facebook, I had met people who had similar struggles and shared their experiences and what worked for them. Once the world opened up again, I had people that were gracious enough to work with us in person, working on skills and helping us find out what worked and what didn't. We spent time in parking lots, school fields, and on trails. We learned, we bonded, we grew.
There have been tears, both of sadness and joy (this boy has made me so very proud), there has been grief and extreme joy.
I am so grateful for this journey, all that he has taught me and how it strengthened our bond. Yes it's been challenging, but I wouldn't change a thing!
We do of course teach our dogs things, but they should be lessons learned together.
When we change our mindset to the lessons are for us, not them. Then we set ourselves up on a better path to shaping the behaviour we want.