11/13/2025
Great reminder! We get so in the habit of mindlessly asking our horses to do things that were flood them with information and cause them to shut us out more. Less is more but getting clarity is always the priority. Make your aids meaningful!
This message from a few years back still rings just as true today...
Often our aids cover up our lack of presence energetically. When we aren’t present in the space, a horse cannot really hear us and we use our aids to fill the gap. We often think of our aids as the first point of communication with the horse instead of a tool to support and back up our energetic intentions. Think about it as a way to intensify your focus on your own energy. The biggest challenge for most of us is to show up and speak authentically in the space. Let your aid amplify your feelings and authentically release your energy to be felt by those around you. Do not think of the pressure as a way to make something happen as this will only create tension, but instead use your aid to help you practice authentic release of a thought, feeling, or energy that you would like your horse to sense. Your inner and outer state must be congruent in order to be heard clearly.