06/29/2025
This is my dear friend in NC... as she says this loud and clear, I think about all the trainers including myself and how we struggle with this. Love you my friend Kelsey Brooke Cox. Keep up all the amazing work that you do! ๐งก
Dog training and working with the public is incredibly HARD. Unrealistic expectations, clients without boundaries, and the amount of hours are simply brutal. I have to remind myself constantly why I'm doing this and my good clients keep my spirits high. Reviews, progress with your dogs, and sending your awesome updates keep me motivated.
Let's talk about compassion fatigue in the dog training world. We often hear about this in the Veterinary community but it is often overlooked when talking about professional dog trainers. As a professional dog trainer we often deal with non complaint owners, we deal with behavioral issues (sometimes non fixable), we see our training dogs euthanized for fixable issues/dogs taken to the shelter because owners refuse to do their homework, people have unrealistic and unreasonable expectations for training in a short amount of time, and simply we work way too much. Due to these reasons dog trainers leave the industry and great dog trainers simply burnout.
How can you help?
Have realistic expectations for training.
Socialize your puppy properly and seek help before issues start.
Understand that dog trainers have lives outside of training so if we don't respond immediately we will get back to you as soon as possible.
When something isn't working with training, simply ask.
Remember you paid for a service, not a person's soul. You paid for an hour of their time not 24/7 access.
We're doing our best to provide excellent service and professional help. We are human and also need a break โค