04/13/2025
How close is too close? When you have a horse that needs support, it seems like they inch up and before we realize it they are standing on top of us. Maybe not necessarily because they are being pushy, but they are looking for comfort, and in those times of need we don’t want to turn them away.
Just like a small child running to their mother when they are afraid, we scoop them up and tell them everything will be ok. Eventually they learn that they can come to us for a snuggle and then go back to what they were doing. And we hope for the same with the horses. I always want them to check in with me, and if they have a moment of uncertainty I like that they seek the closeness for me to reassure them. But eventually they will learn that they don’t need to get into the bubble so often, or for so long. They will know that I will be there to help them in their time of need but their confidence will grow and eventually it will just be to check in. But in the beginning, with one who is unsure, closeness is ok.