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We prioritize turnout, social interaction, forage, and thoughtful horsemanship to support the physical and emotional well-being of every horse.🌻🐎
Located in Hamilton, OH

2026 Halloween Party 👻🎃 Yesterday was a beautiful day! We gathered for fun and photos with our beautiful horses and a de...
10/25/2026

2026 Halloween Party 👻🎃 Yesterday was a beautiful day! We gathered for fun and photos with our beautiful horses and a delicious potluck after! Thank you to everyone who came out and participated. We are truly blessed with an awesome barn family! 💜🐎

Choose the horse, not the sport ❤️ sadly, Uno is one of many horses who go through these types of situations. This post ...
10/22/2026

Choose the horse, not the sport ❤️ sadly, Uno is one of many horses who go through these types of situations. This post is sad, but does a good job bringing awareness to what many show horses are forced to endure all so humans can achieve what they want… and ultimately the price that is paid 💔

Take a good look at this picture.

This is Uno. He is standing in an isolation stall at an equine hospital, with a nasogastric tube draining more than 30 litres of reflux from his stomach. He has severe colitis, his intestines are inflammed, and sepsis is now circulating through his body.

There is no identified virus, infectious bacteria, or impaction responsible for what is happening to him. But there is a long history of drug use and years spent in an industry where medicating horses to keep them performing is considered perfectly normal.

This beautiful Dutch Warmblood dominated hunter circuits throughout North America.

And today, he died.

I am angry, I am heartbroken, and I am tired of watching horses pay the price for what the competitive horse industry has decided is acceptable in the name of winning.

Uno spent years subjected to the medication practices that have become routine in parts of the hunter world. Daily NSAIDs, Banamine, bute, and the infamous show cocktails that are administered with such regularity that trainers have medication schedules worked out practically to the hour, including when substances will no longer be detectable in drug testing.

I have seen the medication boards hanging in barns, the syringes, and the instructions given to grooms as casually as though they were preparing a horse's evening grain. How did this became normal?

If your horse needs Banamine or bute to get through two weeks of showing, why is that horse showing in the first place?

We know that prolonged NSAID use can cause serious gastrointestinal injury, including ulceration and colitis. We know these medications carry significant risks, particularly when used repeatedly or in combination. Yet how many horses are given daily pain medication so they can continue to perform, without anyone asking what is happening inside and why.

Then the side effects kick in, maybe it starts with recurring colic, girth sensitivity, ulcers, or changes in behaviour. Maybe the horse becomes increasingly difficult to keep sound, develops chronic inflammation, skin issues or respiratory problems. what do we do? We manage the symptoms, add another medication, and keep going.

The horse becomes part of an endless cycle of managing the consequences of the very practices that are supposed to keep it performing until one day, it can't anymore.

And then what? A new horse for the season, a lease that doesn't get renewed or sold to another home. The horse is now someone else's problem.

Uno's original owners loved him deeply. He was part of their family, a horse who brought extraordinary joy, wonderful memories, and so much happiness to their children. They celebrated his successes and trusted the people responsible for his training and care.
When they discovered the extent of the medication practices being used, they did something that is far more difficult in this industry than it should ever have to be. They said no.
They moved him to another barn and trainer because they were not willing to accept what was happening to their horse. I can appreciate just how much courage that can take in a world where relationships, reputations, money, and competitive success often dictate who belongs and who doesn't.

There should be mentorship, camaraderie, and a shared commitment to the welfare of these animals. Instead, there is too often judgement, exclusion, and an unspoken expectation that you follow the program if you want to be part of it.

How did we reach a point where an owner who refuses to participate in practices they believe are harming their horse becomes the problem? What does that say about an industry that claims to love horses.

Eventually, Uno was sold to what was believed to be a wonderful home with a young rider. His original owners did what every loving owner hopes to do when making that difficult decision, they tried to ensure he would have a good life. Unfortunately, that was not his last home. He ended up in Wellington, Florida, where injuries and ongoing soundness issues became part of his life, and the medication practices continued. He was facing euthanasia because his owner at that time no longer wanted to deal with his lameness.

The people who had loved him all those years before were not prepared to let his life end simply because he was no longer useful to someone else. They brought him back to Canada, giving him another chance at life. That is how Uno found his way to me.

When he arrived, there was so much physical dysfunction and tension in his body from years of injury, compensation, and pharmaceutical intervention.

Within two months of genetically appropriate food and body work , he was sound,and never took another bad step. But there was an underlying gut issue that I could never quite resolve.

For the last year of his life, Uno lived here with me. I never rode him. He was never used in any of our Equi-Veda community programs. He never had to earn his place here by being useful, productive, or capable of giving anyone an experience. He could simply be a horse. He could live with his herd, make his own choices and exist without expectations and that he didn't need to prove that he was worth the time and effort it took to care for him.

Today, as the veterinarian began the euthanasia process, I held his beautiful face in my hands and told him that he mattered, he was loved and that he was enough, exactly as he was.

His original owners are grieving a horse who meant so much to their family, cherishing the memories of the happiness he brought to their children and knowing that, when he needed them most, they brought him home.

Personally, I am sitting here somewhere between profound sadness, grief, and anger.
My barn is full of horses that have been labelled as cast-offs or cases nobody could figure out. Horses whose bodies have failed to meet the expectations placed upon them, or who have simply become inconvenient because they can no longer do what someone wants.

My education and practice in Veterinary Ayurveda have given me another path to care for these horses, and every single one of them continues to teach me something about medicine, compassion, and myself. These horses are not burdens to me, they are gifts and however long they have left on this earth, they will leave her free from the imprints of the human experience.

Yet Uno’s passing has lit a fire in me, because I will not accept that this is just another unfortunate ending. I cannot accept that medicating horses into the show ring, masking their pain, manipulating their behaviour, and pushing them beyond what their bodies can tolerate has become so ingrained in parts of this industry that people barely question it anymore.

I have seen horses given medication cocktails to get them through competitions, heard the whispers about the trainers who give ACTH injections in an attempt to dull hunters through physiological stress and exhaustion, with the expectation that they will be quieter in the ring the following morning.

Please think about what that means. We are so desperate to manufacture the perfect performance that we are willing to manipulate the animal's own biology to get it and then we call it horsemanship.

When did a ribbon or a trainer's reputation become worth more than the physical and emotional welfare of the animal responsible for earning it?
And when did we become so comfortable looking the other way?

The Emergency Vets who treat severe NSAID-associated gastrointestinal injury understand how devastating these complications can be. Yet somewhere between the hospital and the show ring, that knowledge seems to lose its urgency and relevance.

I am not suggesting that every trainer participates in these practices. There are wonderful trainers and veterinarians who put the welfare of their horses first.
But there are also practices that have been normalized for far too long, and pretending otherwise is not protecting the sport. It is protecting the people who benefit from looking the other way.

What I am asking you on behalf of Uno all the others who can’t speak for themselves is this...

If you are a trainer loading syringes at the show to help a horse get through another round of competition, please remember this image. If that horse needs repeated pain medication just to make it around the ring, load it on the trailer and take it home.

Choose the animal, not the sport.

If you are an owner who knows your horse is being given medication cocktails as part of routine show preparation, please find the courage to say no. Ask questions. Understand what is being administered and why. Do not allow the fear of being judged, excluded, or losing your place in a barn to silence you.

Your horse has no voice in those decisions. You are the one who has to speak for them.

If your horse is on long-term Previcox , please take those warning labels seriously. Understand the risks, discuss the duration of treatment (7-14 days max) Just because something has become common practice does not mean it is harmless.

Showing horses and putting their health first are not mutually exclusive. They should be synonymous.

I am not suggesting that anyone stops competing or riding, I am asking people to remember who makes their participation in this sport possible. The horse.

The animal who has no interest in ribbons, awards, money, prestige, or the status of the person sitting on its back. The animal who trusts us to make decisions in its best interests, even when those decisions mean walking away from something we want.

Uno gave people years of extraordinary performances, but none of those accomplishments made his life more valuable than it was when he stood quietly in my field, doing absolutely nothing. A horse's worth does not diminish when its usefulness to us ends.

His owners understood that. They loved him when he was a champion, they stood up for him when they learned what was happening, and years later, when he was facing death because he could no longer remain sound, they brought him home.

I will always have enormous respect for them for giving him that chance, and I will always be grateful that I was entrusted with the final chapter of his life.

I don't want Uno's story to quietly fade away as another heartbreaking loss. I don't want his legacy to be a collection of ribbons or a record of the shows he won. I want his legacy to be change.

Here's how you can help....Please share his story. We cannot change what happened to him, but we can refuse to allow it to keep happening to others.

If it encourages even one owner to question what is being done to their horse, one trainer to reconsider a medication practice, or one rider to choose their horse's welfare over the next competition, then Uno will have accomplished something far more meaningful than anything he ever won in a show ring.

Rest peacefully, beautiful boy. You were loved for everything you were, not for anything you could do.🙏❤️

We have had horses like this over the years and work very hard to help them rehabilitate 🫶
10/21/2026

We have had horses like this over the years and work very hard to help them rehabilitate 🫶

I long for the day that the horse who gets anxious being turned out in open spaces and “doesn’t like” turn out is view as a man-made tragedy in the same way that puppy mill dogs who never get to see outdoors are views.

I long for the day where people stop making excuses for abnormal behaviours that are created by over confinement.

I long for the day that people see the tragedy that is a herd animal having their spirit so abundantly broken that they get anxiety from the very things they’re naturally driven to do.

A horse who has been so chronically under stimulated that the outdoors feels overwhelming is a tragedy.

Not a preference.

Ive been trying to share worthwhile articles on our page in hopes that people read them and can learn from them.
10/15/2026

Ive been trying to share worthwhile articles on our page in hopes that people read them and can learn from them.

Our obsession with “boundaries” 🐴

I don’t know if I’m going to be able to piece my thoughts on this together as coherently as I’d like to but I’m going to try. Its going to be a long one.

Something that comes up time and time again, usually as a rebuttal to anyone advocating for being kinder and listening to horses, is the “boundaries” argument. “We have got to have clear boundaries with horses they are big and can hurt us”. While it is true that of course horses have the ability to hurt us, the idea that you have to be hard on them to make them safe to be around is false.

Firstly, as I’m always writing about, horses who are difficult to handle are struggling, they usually have pain/discomfort they’re dealing with, are often dealing with chronic stress from their living environment and on top of this usually negative associations with training/people. Taking these horses into a training space and making them yield to pressure and move their feet until you are satisfied is not helping them, it is creating a shut down horse. What I find is when we actually focus on addressing the underlying issues instead, we find our handling issues melt away.

This is why I don’t give boundaries with my horses much thought, not because I don’t think safety is important, but because horses are not unsafe to be around when we approach them with this mindset.

I try to stay away from words like “boundaries” and “clarity” because they don’t really tell us what someone means. What are the boundaries? What are we clarifying?

My horses are extremely safe to be around, anyone can handle them, I trust that they would never bite/kick a human, but they are like this because I treat them with respect. They do not fear people, they know they will be listened to. I do not make them move their feet, or make them back up every time they step close to me, or make them stay every time they want to leave a situation. Sometimes I even yield to them, as in when they move I move out of their way. 😱 And yet despite this, they move their bodies however I ask them off of light tactile pressure, they stay with me when I ask them to, they have never trampled me or pushed me over and they are excellent when having to deal with uncomfortable procedures with the vet. Horses are never trying to dominate us, they are communicating and trying their best to cope, and they are such gentle, compliant creatures when they feel safe with us.

We often hear that “horses aren’t gentle with each other, we’re just speaking their language by being rough with them”. Firstly, the intense resource guarding behaviour we see in our domesticated horses is created by the environments we keep them in, but I’m not going to go into that here. Secondly, when a horse drives another horse away, this is called distance-increasing behaviour, they want the other horse to move away, and as soon as that other horse moves away to what they deem an acceptable distance, they stop. They do not have the other horse on a rope preventing them from straying too far, they do not repeatedly force the other horse into situations where they have to endure their corrections again and again until they’re following along like an obedient robot. Thirdly, your horse knows you aren’t a horse.

I want to tell you a story about a client horse, at 3 years old he retired from racing and went to a respected NH trainer, these videos are still on the internet as a success story. His body is clearly very weak and compromised in the videos, yet he is put through groundwork where he is taken into an arena and frightened with a flapping flag, while being prevented from leaving with a rope halter and the weight of a grown man on the end of it. The horse desperately tries to get away, several times nearly kicking the trainer in the head as he spins and tries to leave a situation he is finding intolerable. Of course he is forced to stay and eventually he shuts down and complies, the trainer praised as so brave for putting himself in that situation with such a dangerous, unruly horse. The horse is described as much happier now he has “clarity” and trusts this trainer as “leader”. This horse goes on to be ridden by the trainer for several months as a 3yo in his weak, compromised body. He stays very compliant.

Fast forward to now he is 7 years old and has luckily found his way into my client’s gentle herd of horses. He has passed through several homes since the trainer, his body tells such a story, it is taking him a really long time to feel safe around us. When he first came he would bolt in hand, he would panic through gateways and run straight through you. Any pressure would cause really dangerous behaviour. His tolerance for stress is really low before he blows, I would describe him as traumatised. He has since been diagnosed with nuchal ligament damage, neck issues and kissing spine. I look at this horse, and so many horses like him, and wonder how much of this damage was present while he was being repeatedly yanked around by his head as a weedy 3yo, made to disengage his quarters, made to back up, ridden in circles, how much pain was he in? Was any of it caused then? Why did nobody see how much he was struggling, why did nobody see an issue with his body looking the way it did?

Most horses have compromised bodies in some way or another, many horses are carrying around significant pain that is causing their behavioural issues in the first place. Putting them through this sort of training is not only unethical, it is physically and emotionally damaging. Yes horses need to be able to cope with pressure, but there is plenty of stress and pressure in the world already, we do not need to be the source of it, we are supposed to be their partners there to support them.

When horses have been hurt and frightened like this it poisons the relationship, the headcollar and rope means nothing good, and it becomes really difficult to make them feel okay and safe with pressure again. Once they come out of that shut down and you see what is really underneath, then you see that the so-called “dangerous” behaviour never left, it was simply suppressed as a coping mechanism. This sort of training makes horses really pessimistic about us and the world, they may seem obedient, but when you actually start trying to really connect with that horse again they often want nothing to do with you.

I often wish it was appropriate to emulate what is done to horses on people so we could really think about how the horse feels. Imagine someone started coming at your with a flag or a whip with no explanation that you can understand, you just have to keep guessing how to make it stop. You finally get relief but you’re not sure what to do next, you have to guess the next right answer. If you make a mistake you are hassled immediately. How would you feel around someone who communicated with you like this? Safe? Relaxed? Anxious? Defeated?

I keep watching a lot of zoo animal training content and seeing the creative, thoughtful ways they are training animals for necessary procedures, keeping the animal’s experience at the forefront. I wish we would look at training horses like this instead of expecting them to be obedient robots who are there to obey our every command.

A horse does not need to be blindly obedient to be safe to be around. We can make our horses much safer to be around by thinking about our own behaviour and what we can change to help them.

I think back to last new year when we had a very frightening incident with fireworks being let off right on top of my horses, I was trapped in a very small space with them both, with the sky exploding, pitch black to flash to pitch black to flash, they were both panicking and scrabbling around the space, neither of them knocked me over or trampled me, even in their blind panic, I didn’t even know what was going on, yet they still managed not to hurt me. Horses are incredibly sensitive, vigilant animals who can read the subtlest of body language or change in environment. I’m sure they see us as clumsy, confusing idiots, we can be so unaware of our own presence and what we are giving off.

I want people to know there is a different way, you do not need to take your horse into a training space and make him yield to you to create a safe, resilient horse. If you are struggling with your horse, please listen to them and think before you start just trying to suppress behaviour. I have yet to meet a horse with a behavioural issue that simply has an issue with “boundaries”, but I meet many horses who have been damaged by this belief and it is such a difficult one to unpack.

You do not need to come in like a sledgehammer to offer your horse clarity. We can train gently once we address the underlying issues and have our horses in a more trainable state. In the meantime we can stop setting them up to fail by putting them into situations we know they’re going to struggle with in the first place, lets be more creative.

I want to keep writing about this as much as I can because I am so sick of seeing horses who are clearly struggling being labelled as simply “dominant” or “has learned he can intimidate people”. Horses do not work like this, they have no motivation to do this, they are desperately to to communicate with us and they are usually communicating that they are in pain. I appreciate some of this sounds vague but its really difficult to give solid examples without letting this post go on, I will write some client stories soon. If any of this is speaking to you at all please feel free to reach out. 🐴

Photo of my horse Dan coming to see if the snack man has snacks (he does) ❤️

10/15/2026

The way that Horse people respond to soft training methods needs to be studied.

For years now, I have repeatedly been told how dangerous it is for me to trail ride bridleless and how training with food rewards will result in Horse is being dangerous flesh eating monsters.

The irony lies in the fact that my horses have never been safer since I started using rewards based methods.

I’ve been present on social media for years.

So, a significant portion of the time I was posting my horse broncing and exploding at shows. I was told it was quirky. I was told he was a spicy redhead. Tons of people laughed and enjoyed those videos.

Every single one of those videos depicted far more dangerous behaviour than what he ever has in recent of bridleless riding and rewards based training.

And yet, the same people telling me that I’m endangering myself, my Horse and others now had no issue with his behaviour then.

The Horse industry concept of control is really flawed.

We see, on a repeated basis, people losing control, no matter how much tack they have on.

In just the past couple of years, I’ve seen numerous videos of upper level professionals having horses run off with whilst wearing gag bits and martingales.

I have watched videos of horses exploding dangerously when overwhelmed by forceful training.

So, I not only have my personal experience to draw from in terms of looking at how much safer my work is now versus how dangerous it was when I was trying to force horses to engage in things that they were very uncomfortable with but I also have the experience of witnessing the Horse industry at large.

There is nothing more dangerous than weapon equipment to force horses into doing tasks that they are not physically or mentally comfortable with

This decision is single-handedly one of the most dangerous ones that Equestrian can make.

Allowing horses to have more choice and to truly engage in training willingly means that you get a lot more honesty about how they are really feeling.

They don’t get as overwhelmed.

They don’t bottle things up until they can’t take it anymore and then explode.

They are regulating throughout training.

I would not be able to ride my horse safely bridleless if we had not built rapport and worked on an emotional regulation.

The thing is, building a relationship that is rooted in a foundation of trust and understanding is always going to be far more reliable than any equipment.

A lot of this comes down to the people’s perception of control, not the actual truth of it.

Horses repeatedly approved to us that when they are stressed enough, they will run through even the harshest equipment.

The answer is not more equipment.

It is better and more empathetic training.

It is being less forceful.

Because when your horse gets to choose to participate and be with you, they’re not going to be as desperate to run away from you with s**t hits the fan.

10/10/2026
You don’t rehome your old dog. You don’t rehome your spouse as they age. You don’t rehome your friends if they get injur...
10/09/2026

You don’t rehome your old dog. You don’t rehome your spouse as they age. You don’t rehome your friends if they get injured. Please have that same respect towards the horse who literally carried you for years.

PSA: Stop deciding your horse is too expensive to keep now that you can’t ride him anymore.

I get it. Horses are expensive. Board is expensive. Hay is expensive. Vet bills are expensive. I understand and am knowledgeable in the costs of the industry.

But if I get one more message from someone asking me to take their horse because he’s retired and can’t be ridden anymore, I’m going to explode. 🤯

You’ve had no problem figuring out how to pay his bills when he was rideable. Why is he suddenly too expensive to keep now that he’s not?

I get it. You want the money to get another horse that you can ride. As someone who has a knack for finding horses with medical issues who can’t be ridden, I get the disappointment and sadness of not being able to ride your horse.

But that’s not his fault. And it’s not his fault it costs a lot to keep him.

👏 you made a commitment to an animal 👏

See. It. Through.

You don’t rehome your dog because he gets too old to go on long walks anymore. You buy him an orthopedic bed and cuddle him on the floor when he’s too weak to jump on the bed anymore.

It’s not your horse’s fault hay is expensive. And it’s not his fault he can’t be ridden anymore. He gave you his all for years.

You don’t need to find a retirement home for him.

You need to give him one.

This is not about people who are facing legitimate financial hardship in these insane times. This is about the people who don’t want to pay for a horse as soon as that horse can no longer “fulfill their obligation.”

Conditional love is a bad look. Enjoy the golden years with your friend. They’re some of the most magical years of a horse’s life.

08/02/2026

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