09/20/2023
Life is infinitely changing.
Some changes are small and we hardly notice them and over time they compound into something bigger. And some changes are big and sudden and leave us feeling like we got caught in a whirlwind.
Preparing myself and my pack for a newborn felt like a lot of small changes that we were adding together but once she arrived it felt much bigger, more whirlwind. The truth is that it was a bit of both. We have made a lot of small changes over the past two years that have helped in preparing my pack for this challenge. Not every change we made was specifically aimed at this preparation either, a lot of our changes were for the betterment of our individual relationships and the pack relationship as a whole.
And here we are now, figuring out all of these relationships in the midst of the whirlwind of learning to care for a newborn and relearning how to care for ourselves with this newborn.
I’ll admit that sometimes I don’t do a great job with juggling all of this, at least not yet. I’m getting better all the time as I figure out what kind of routine is going to work now and that’s really all I can hope for.
So what’s the point of this? Well change brings opportunity and so while a lot has changed for me and my pack I also see a great opportunity to build on what we’ve been working towards, bettering our relationships. It looks a little different now but it forces me to be more intentional and to focus on one on one time with each of my girls which is where I was lacking before.
So if you are in a season of life where a lot is changing and you feel like you are struggling with your dog just know that you aren’t alone and when you get through this season of change you’ll have built a stronger relationship with your dog.