03/21/2025
Very well written post!
š Hereās to making the magic happen at Mesa Farm, LLC where every detail mattersš
The Small Trainer/instructor/coach/friend
That moment when your horse is just slightly off, not lame, not colicky, just⦠weird.
Youāre staring at them, theyāre staring at you, and neither of you has a clue.
But the small trainer? They notice.
Find a trainer who actually sees you. Sees your horse. Sees that your inside leg is flapping like a fish and kindly pretends not to notice, until youāre ready to hear it.
Because not every big-name rider in a fancy yard is the right fit.
A trainer isnāt just there to shout āMORE LEG!ā while sipping coffee from the safety of the arena fence.
A real trainer guides you, teaches you, picks you up when you fall (both literally and emotionally), and occasionally reminds you to breathe.
Before you send your horse off to a big, famous rider, ask yourself:
Are they going to take the time to know you and your horse?
Or will they take one look at your slightly confused face and your horseās āI work on my scheduleā attitude and move on to the next client?
Because itās the small trainer who actually gives you a chance.
The one who believes in you, even when youāre convinced youāll never canter in a straight line.
The one who doesnāt judge when you say, Iāve never done this before, but why not?
The one who takes an extra 30 minutes just to make sure that turn is exactly right, so you leave the arena feeling like Carl Hester(even if your horse is feeling more like a Thelwell pony).
The one whoās walking through the yard at 10pm, checking on your horse like an overprotective parent.
The one trying to make your dreams affordable (because, letās be honest, we all know horses eat money for breakfast).
The one who actually wants your horse to enjoy their job, not just tolerate it.
The one who will try every trick in the book (and some that arenāt in the book) to get the absolute best out of your horse.
Thatās why Iām training to be more than just an instructor.
Iām training to be a coach, a mentor, a friend.
Someone who sees you, supports you, and doesnāt let you give up, no matter how many times you forget to sit up.
Because the small trainer?
Theyāre the ones who make the magic happenā¦
And theyāre also the ones who will laugh with you (not at you)⦠when your horse suddenly remembers how to rodeo mid-lesson.