10/24/2026
Forward moving is not always an indication of forward thinking. A horse that learns to move forward in a framework that is weighted in avoiding pressure signals feels very different than a horse that is seeking, targeting, and exploring. It’s not that pressure signals shouldn’t be utilized, rather they are better introduced, first, through communicating our boundaries. A relationship built with lop-sided trust requires reliance on propped up control. So the more we can make introductory arrangements that foster ‘forward’ through seeking, targeting, exploring, the better we can build 2-way trust. Poking a bear, yet not wanting them to leave requires a use of mechanical aids weighted in containment. The mare in this video is exploring, offering, and was not asked to step up on the bridge, nor given any forward direction. The rider is focused on staying balanced regardless of the maneuvering choices the mare makes. However, there is a moment of setting a boundary when the mare suggests stepping up onto the stack of matts. For developing ‘forward thinking’, It’s much better to communicate, ‘you can do any forward maneuver, but that one’ than to demand a maneuver that is very micro-managed. Develop the forward thinking mindset first, acceptance of your boundaries, listening to their boundaries, then get more technical together.