09/11/2025
Riding lessons are more than time practicing your skills in the saddle. They’re opportunities to grow as both a rider and a horseman. But to get the most out of every minute, it takes more than showing up and hoping for the best. From preparation to mindset, small choices can make a big difference in your progress. Here are ten simple but powerful ways to maximize your next lesson.
1. Listen to Your Trainer
During a lesson, your priority should be to focus on what your trainer is saying. You’ve paid to learn from them, so keep your ears open! Enter your lesson with the intention to listen rather than speak. This goes for apologizing as well. You don’t need to apologize throughout your lesson. Your trainer knows you didn’t mean to make a mistake. Instead, use your focus to improve, not to beat yourself up or make excuses.
2. Keep Going
When performing an exercise, assume that you should keep going until your trainer tells you to stop. Preemptively pausing or stopping an exercise may show that you’re not fully committed to the lesson at hand. Your trainer knows what is hard and how hard to push you-trust them enough to see their pedagogy vision through.
3. Arrive On Time
Keep in mind that your trainer has a busy schedule. Arriving late to a lesson not only impacts their schedule for the day, but also takes away time from your lesson. Being timely helps to create a trusting relationship between you and your trainer.
4. Show Up Prepared
When you arrive at a lesson, be prepared to hop right on your horse or pony. Come appropriately prepared so that you aren’t putting on spurs or other equipment at the last minute.
5. Prioritize Your Fitness
Put some time and effort into keeping yourself in shape out of the saddle. This could look adding workouts to your routine or even offering to do some extra physical activity and chores around the barn. Being fit outside of the ring is essential to maintaining your athleticism atop a horse.
6. Remember What You’ve Learned
It’s important to bring the work you’ve done in previous lessons to your current lesson. Keep in mind the areas where you’ve struggled or succeeded and use that past knowledge to build upon those skills.
7. Listen to Your Horse
Never forget that your priority in the ring is your horse. Keep a close eye, ear, and hand on your mount to make sure you’re both operating at your best ability. If you discover something is off with your horse, always speak up—even if you aren’t sure. Your trainer will help you assess and you find the best solution for the horse.
8. Stay in the Moment
Your attention should be focused on what’s happening in the present during a lesson. Not what happened at school or work that day. Not about the show next weekend. What’s going on right now in your lesson. Watch other people do the exercises before you, so you can get a handle on how it rides. Notice how others excel and what mistakes to avoid. Appreciate the time you have with your trainer and truly listen to their guidance and advice.
9. Be Considerate
In private and group lessons, always be considerate of who you may be sharing the ring with. This includes not interrupting another lesson with a personal question or issue. Stay attentive and mindful to keep yourself and those around you safe.
10. Don’t Forget the Basics
At the end of the day, perhaps the four most important words to remember are some of the most basic reminders: heels down, eyes up.
Every lesson is a chance to learn, not just from your trainer, but from your horse and yourself. By staying focused, prepared, and considerate, you set the stage for steady improvement and stronger partnerships. Keep these tips in mind the next time you head to the ring, and see how much more you take away from each ride.
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