11/29/2021
STRUCTURE = FREEDOM
The structure, boundaries, and accountability of training lead to the freedom, inclusion and fulfillment that we all want our dogs to have. Without creating a language, we can’t communicate. Without leadership and believability, we can’t rely on consistent behavior. Without a history of reliable behavior, we can’t trust our dogs out in the world.
So many owners are afraid of implementing the structure and boundaries that are needed in their lifestyle with their dog to create successful training results. They are reluctant to remove what they perceive as freedom from the dog. From the dog’s point of view, the freedom to pick which area of the house they are going to nap in pales in comparison to the freedom to move their bodies in nature uninhibited by the tether of a leash or the confines of a yard. The freedom to charge the windows barking when they see something outside or to run the fence line at the sound of another animal on the exterior does not live up to the freedom to enjoy meaningful interactions with humans they love or to romp around outdoors with their dog friends they trust.
In all actuality, those “freedoms” are reinforcing choices and mindsets that are potentially unhealthy, unsafe and sometimes don’t even feel good to the dog, which in turn, creates behavioral patterns that make it more difficult to trust your dog with actual freedoms that genuinely feel good to them.
It’s always interesting to me when, for example, someone will criticize my choice to leave my personal dogs crated when unsupervised and argue the desire to indulge their dog with the freedom to free roam the house at all times, but then when I ask if they want reliability off leash for their dog to explore, they respond with, “oh, well they don’t need that much freedom.”
So, I ask you, which kind of freedom do you believe is more enjoyable to your dog?
Structure and training will create a relationship in which your dog sees YOU as the access to all things good in life and is motivated to listen to you, thus enabling a dynamic in which their behavior is reliable enough to reward them with freedoms that are genuinely fulfilling to them.