06/23/2026
She was my sister's cat
My sister died and left behind a cat. Her cat. A little living being who had made the last two years of my sister's life bearable, little less lonely. Now, what happens to that cat?
I do Rescue โ of course I would take care of Emma. My sister knew this, she and I had planned ahead so that there was never going to be a doubt, Emma would be taken care of. How many people make sure to create a plan for their companion animals, in case they die first?
It's part of my adoption application for any creature I am placing, if you die who will take care of your pet? And I ask for the name and phone number of that person so it's part of the record. Because one of the true heartaches of Rescue is seeing the number of times the human has died and no one stepped up for the cat/dog/bird...
I brought Emma home and gave her three weeks to just settle, getting to know her personally and understand what kind of home she needed. And then I talked to applicants who were good people but not the right fit for her. Then one day I remembered a couple who had taken in a 14-year-old, semi feral cat who was being abandoned after her human died. They gave her a wonderful life for another four years โ and let me know she died earlier this year. They thanked me for trusting them to adopt herโค๏ธ
One text later "have you considered adopting another?" gave the response that let me know Emma was on the road to a truly perfect home. This little door dasher went from a tiny home with no outdoor access to a two level home with a giant catio- she settled in almost immediately and two weeks later she now owns the homeโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
There really is nothing more meaningful than that last gift you can give the person who died - making sure the little one they loved is cared for. Please, do make sure if someone you love dies and leaves behind a beloved pet, she is not forgotten. And ask everyone you know, "if you die before your pet, have you made a plan for her?" The biggest mistake people make is assuming their family will take care of their pet โ don't assume. And don't put it off โ do it today, because sometimes tomorrow never comes.