06/20/2026
The dog came to you β so why'd he bite when you try to pet him?
A friend asked me: "The dog walked right up to me. I petted him but then he tried to bite me. What did I do wrong?"
Here's the part most people miss. πΎ
A dog coming close isn't saying "pet me."
He's being brave enough to get close β to figure out if YOU'RE safe.
So when your hand comes over his head, you've answered a question he was still asking. And that "sudden" bite? It was never sudden. It was the only word he had left.
The fix is simple:
Let the dog come over. Let them sniff you. You can try to pet, but pet for three seconds or less, then stop and take your hands back.
β‘οΈ If they lean in for more β you're good.
β‘οΈ If they don't β you just became someone that dog can trust.
Coming close isn't "yes." It's "let me check." π
Follow along and I'll help you understand what your dog's been trying to tell you.