08/14/2026
13 years ago today. She was only about 3 months old max here. Which means her birthday would have been approximately mid May. My birthday is on May 19th.
I have actually never thought about this because I never really celebrated her birthday cause I never knew exactly what day it was.
Now that I think about it, I suppose it’s not much of a coincidence that our birthdays are around the same exact time.
Connected at the soul for eternity.
My posts following her passing have reached millions of people on the internet.
Recently I got a DM from a man telling me to “get over it” & “stop crying” & all the wildly insane things to say to someone hurting deeply.
My takeaway from that is as follows:
I acknowledged how reading those messages made me feel.
Surprisingly I didn’t feel hurt by it.
Perhaps a gift from Rosie yet again even from the afterlife.
There are very very few things that can hurt me now.
Bc the thing that hurt me the most already happened.
A strangers lack of empathy didn’t hurt me at all.
The next observation I made was acknowledging just how sad this persons existence must be.
To kick someone when they are already suffering immensely.
Some people are examples of what to never be like.
A man in that kind of space is already living in a real life hell.
So I didn’t respond with the same energy he gave me bc there’s nothing worse than the life he currently experiences daily.
Anyway. If you don’t wanna see my continued remembering & grief journey,
All you really gotta do is just stop watching. You don’t have to say anything to me. There’s nothing you can say or do to hurt me so just save your breath.
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