
04/18/2025
Multi-dog household people, this one’s for you!!
Fulfilling and caring for multiple dogs can be quite the task and most people with more than one dog often deal with the difficulty of navigating making things fair for each dog.
Most likely each dog in your house NEEDS something different. My young dogs need more training and activity than my old dogs. My herding dogs need more physical activity than the rest. My pitbulls need more impulse control training than the rest. Some of my dogs need more boundaries to thrive (like no furniture privileges and regular crate time) while some of my dogs don’t need that, so they get different freedoms.
People really struggle with this. They think it all must be equal. If they take one dog for a walk, they must take the other one too. It’s unfair to not let one dog in the furniture if the other(s) are. And the list goes on and on.
In any of these scenarios, the assumption is that both/all dogs needs, likes, capabilities and desires are exactly the same. What they fail to consider is each dog as an individual.
Now let’s revisit the previous examples. Sherman is a puppy and does really need a walk a day, this is imperative for his development, exposure and physical fulfillment. Brayden is 12 and would much rather be sleeping on the couch. Sure Brayden still needs walks but he most certainly doesn’t need one every day. Taking Sherman for a walk everyday and not Brayden is totally fair!
My dogs are allowed on furniture with permission, except Bindi. All my other dogs show no negative behaviors by being allowed this privilege. Bindi has a history of getting in fights when she’s allowed on the furniture. This is unsafe first of all. More importantly though, if I know this privilege leads to this behavior, it would be very unfair of me to put Bindi and my other dogs in that situation. Letting my others dogs on furniture with permission but not Bindi is fair!!
Another consideration is what a dog enjoys. If Debbie LOVES going to a good patio dinner with us but Shenzi HATES doing that, fair means respecting their likes and dislikes.
Fair does not mean equal. Fair means everyone gets what they NEED!!