10/25/2026
Why Are Some People With Dementia Afraid of the Toilet?
Something as simple as using the bathroom can become frightening for someone living with dementia. Here’s why:
• The toilet looks like a hole. Changes in depth perception can make the opening look like a deep hole they might fall into.
• They don’t recognize it anymore. Dementia can affect their ability to understand what a toilet is or how to use it.
• They are afraid of falling. Sitting down can feel scary, especially if they already struggle with balance.
• They see things differently. Shadows, dark toilet seats, and patterned floors can look like holes or obstacles.
What can caregivers do?
• If the toilet seat is white or cream get a red or blue toilet seat. The see those colors and it won’t look like a hole in the floor.
• Keep the bathroom well-lit.
• Remove confusing rugs or patterned mats.
• Wait until they’ve left the bathroom before flushing if the noise frightens them.
• Be patient and offer reassurance.
Remember: They’re not being difficult. They may genuinely be terrified of something their brain no longer understands.
Sometimes understanding why a behavior happens can completely change how we respond.
