11/21/2025
The Real Safety Issue: Not Your Horse ā Your Awareness.
I know Iāve talked about this before, but the comments keep rolling in and theyāve made me think a lot about the average rider nowadays. A while back I posted a photo of me riding my horse with my toddlerāyes, without a helmetāand apparently that photo lives rent-free in some peopleās minds because Iām still getting comments about her safety.
And hereās the thing⦠the harder people try to āprove a point,ā the more they end up proving something else entirely: theyāre completely out of touch with their horses.
Even after I gave a brief description of this horseās training, temperament, and reliability (basically saying my toddler is safer on this horse than she is in the car seat on the way to Walmart), people still come charging in with worst-case scenarios.
āWhat if your horse trips or stumbles?ā
Well⦠if my horse is stumbling across flat ground on a normal day, you can bet your saddle Iām not putting a toddler on him to begin with.
But secondly, I train my horses to carry themselves balanced, aware of their feet, and mentally presentānot wandering around like teenagers on their phones.
āWhat if your horse slips and falls?ā
My immediate question is:
Are you not aware of your environment when you ride??
Are you so mentally checked out when you swing a leg over that you donāt notice holes, slick spots, or obstacles? Iāve spent many years packing and cowboying. Out here you learn real quick that you must pay attentionābadger holes and downed barbed wire donāt care how broke your horse is.
Terrain awareness isnāt optional. Itās horsemanship 101.
āWhat if your horse spooks?ā
My counter-question:
How do you not feel the signs leading up to a spook?
A horse doesnāt just levitate six feet sideways out of nowhere. Their energy shifts. Their body tightens. Their focus changes. If youāre truly with your horse, you feel that before anything happens.
And I donāt want a horse who panics first and thinks later. I train mine to look to me for direction, even when theyāre unsure. Thatās why they stop and ask, āOkay, boss⦠what next?ā instead of bolting to the next zip code.
āMost accidents happen on the most broke horses!ā
True⦠but not for the reason people think.
Accidents happen because riders check out. They treat their horse like a machine and stop paying attentionāstop feeling, stop noticing, stop communicating. Meanwhile the horse has been politely saying, āHey⦠Iām uncomfortable,ā and the rider is basically replying, āLol nope.ā
Whether Iām on a c**t or my most seasoned horse, I stay tuned in to their energy, body language, and movement. The moment you assume your horse āwonāt do anything,ā youāve already stopped riding.
The real issue: people arenāt reading their horses anymore.
We live in a generation where people claim āhorses are unpredictableā to justify every safety fear under the sun. But hereās the truth:
Horses are extremely predictable.
People just arenāt paying attention.
Thatās why we see so much bucking, bolting, rearing, and drama today. When you ask owners when the behavior started, nine times out of ten they say, āIt came out of nowhere!ā
No⦠it didnāt.
The horse has been saying it for years.
Tail swishing. Tension. Head tossing. Hollowing out. Not standing still. Locking up. Inconsistent movement. Reluctance. Tightness. Changes in expression. All waved in front of their face like flashing neon signsā¦
But they didnāt notice until the horse finally had to yell to be heard.
Closing: Tune In or Hang On
Bottom line:
If you stay connected to your horse, riding feels like a conversation.
If you donāt⦠it turns into one of those āhang on and prayā rollercoasters people love to post in Facebook groups with the caption, āHeās never done this before!ā
Trust meāhe has.
You just missed the memo.