10/28/2025
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Horse training is messy. It's not for the faint of heart or for the perfectionist. Training horses is a process of showing a horse the task, getting them to do it however well they can at first and then refining how they accomplish the task one step at a time. And because a horse is a powerful being with will, sometimes it can get oppositional with a horse that doesn't understand or doesn't want to do the task. After all, they just want to eat.
The part about not being for the faint of heart is about how a horse trainer deals with misunderstanding or opposition in a horse. Both require patience. If a trainer lacks patience and tries to force an outcome, all that is accomplished is the horse learns to fight.
The part about how perfectionists do not make effective horse trainers is that the process is hardly ever perfect. Training horses is by its nature messy. If a rider has been trained, for example, to please judges with perfect positions they can have difficulty being effective in the process of introducing new tasks to a horse and still maintain their perfect show riding. Only later in the process, when the work moves to refining tasks, is when their equation becomes useful. Until then, it's about staying on the horse while moving the horse as best you can through a training task to completion. This also requires patience.
I see a lot of people today who call themselves horse trainers who are really horse sorters. They sort out the tough ones and work with the easy ones. Or there is a type that bribes a horse with treats to accommodate them, but a horse that is "trained" through accommodation is not really trained because their will has not been challenged. These horses tend to spend the rest of their lives being the boss and not a partner with a rider. And of course, there are the horse trainers who use calming "supplements" or other drugs to make a horse in training more manageable. But I don't think a drugged horse can completely learn from training or retain training.
There is no getting away from it. Horse training is not easy. You can get frustrated, injured, disappointed and exhausted doing it, and in the end the outcome is not ensured. You can fail and along the way to success or failure, it's messy. Therefore, if you lack patience or are a perfectionist and fear failure, horse training is probably not for you.