08/23/2025
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Yes, yes, YES! 🙌
Socialization isn’t about forcing your puppy into experiences. It’s about offering safe opportunities, keeping them positive, and always giving your puppy the choice to opt out if they feel uncomfortable. 💛
"Socialization" refers to *positive* experiences with novel people, places, surfaces, sounds, sights, objects, touch/handling, and more.
If your dog isn't having a good time, and isn't able to voluntarily opt IN to participation, then you may be sensitizing your dog instead! Sensitization happens when a dog has neutral to negative experiences, or is forced into experiences that they don't have the skills to handle.
Puppies who receive socialization (like the Beagle on the right) gain confidence, resilience, and stability over time, and grow up to have fewer fear and aggression issues. Puppies who aren't given autonomy and choice in their interactions, or who are pushed into interactions that leave them feeling unsure or worried (like the Beagle on the left) are more likely to have anxiety or defensive issues as adults.
Remember to set your puppy up for success! Socialize smartly, and always pay attention to your puppy's body language to ensure she's having a good time.
More resources are in the comments!