10/30/2026
Yesterday, while riding a horse that has probably challenged me more than any horse I’ve ever swung a leg over, I had one of those moments where I just had to stop and thank God.
This horse has tested every bit of patience, knowledge and ability I have. He’s reactive, watchy, opinionated and has fought me on just about everything. I’ve threatened to sell him more times than I can count. I even gave myself a deadline. If I couldn’t get through to him by the next auction, he was going.
But deep down, I knew what was there. I knew he had the potential to be a really nice horse. I just couldn’t figure out how to reach him.
For almost three weeks, I’ve put my head down, stayed consistent and rode him every day. Yesterday, I finally felt like we had a breakthrough. We still have plenty to work on, but the horse that has frustrated me more than any other is becoming one of the nicest horses I’ve ridden.
And as I sat there, I couldn’t help but think about every horse I’ve ridden before him. Every difficult one, every mistake, every lesson learned and every time I’ve had to change my approach.
God didn’t just give me this horse to teach me patience. He gave me all those horses before him to prepare me for this one.
I genuinely don’t believe I could have gotten through to him a few years ago. I didn’t have the knowledge, the feel or the patience that those other horses taught me.
Sometimes we don’t realize how much we’re learning in the middle of the struggle. Those lessons might not make sense until years later, when you find yourself needing every single one of them.
I’m thankful for the easy horses, but I’m especially thankful for the hard ones. They’ve made me a better horseman.
Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t just in the horse. It’s in the person you’ve become while trying to reach him.