Tailsend

Tailsend Lifetime private sanctuary for senior, hard to adopt dogs. For full bio- see website linked below.
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08/28/2025

🚨 Missouri’s Pet Population is in Crisis 🚨

Right now, across Missouri, shelters & pounds are overflowing. Every single day, more pets are being surrendered, abandoned, or born into homelessness than there are homes available. The heartbreaking reality is that too many cats and dogs are sitting in kennels waiting—and far too many never make it out. 💔

The truth is simple: we cannot adopt, foster, or rescue our way out of this crisis. The only way to truly make a difference is through spay and neuter.

✂️ Spaying and neutering:
✅ Prevents unwanted litters that often end up in shelters.
✅ Helps pets live longer, healthier lives.
✅ Reduces roaming, aggression, and certain health risks.
✅ Saves thousands of innocent lives every year.

If you love animals, the most powerful step you can take is to make sure your pets are spayed or neutered—and encourage others to do the same. Together, we can slow the flood of unwanted litters and give every dog and cat a better chance at finding a loving home. 🐾❤️

👉 Please share this message. Awareness saves lives.

This is a must read for everyone, not just rescue.  I'm going to address the very ugly TRUTH about overpopulation, owner...
08/28/2025

This is a must read for everyone, not just rescue. I'm going to address the very ugly TRUTH about overpopulation, owner surrenders, and euthanasia. We have to euthanize - period. For lack of space, for lack of staff/funds/adoptions/fosters, and for lack of people not giving a damn about their pets... Not enough spay/neuter services, puppy mills and backyard breeders go unchecked, rescues are full- and closing down every day, sanctuaries are full - and shutting down. Shelters are full - and closing their doors to intake , mostly due to the destructive BFAS "no kill" policies and procedures that have caused this crisis in the first place. I'm calling BU****IT on "no kill", I suggest strongly that you take the time to get informed on that subject. Spay/neuter is an obvious part of the solution, but we are way past it being THE solution. Designer dogs became the "thing" years ago, it's bigger business now than it's ever been, and growing every day. Stopping/regulating backyard breeders that flood dogs into the system HAS to be addressed - by legislative actions and laws. Dog fighting, which is probably the biggest unaddressed issue in animal welfare today, manufactures pitbulls by the thousands - just look at the general population in any shelter - pitbull types in ALL of them, in disproportionately high numbers. GET A CLUE. Now the big one: We have made a huge cultural shift in the last few decades, and not in a good way. Technology has overtaken our lives and over ridden our humanity in many ways. We have plugged into an Internet/computers/phones/social media as our only contact with each other. People no longer socialize face to face, texting has replaced conversation, Amazon and Door dash deliver anything we want immediately to our doorsteps, no interaction required. Our brave new world has dulled our senses and evaporated our emotions, people are self absorbed, self centered, and selfish. Immediate gratification is the only goal, patience, perseverance, and the ability to see to any needs outside of their own - sadly, gone. There is no commitment or loyalty to family/friends/home/work - anyone or anything that demands too much mental or emotional attention goes quickly to the wayside. People have become incapable of forming deep, emotional attachments/real empathy/ genuinely sympathetic responses. We commit to nothing, we care about nothing - that does not concern the immediate self. LAZY - self explanatory. NOW: there are times when people really do need to re-home a pet, hard times hit everyone. But, I don't believe for a minute that hard times are the biggest reason people are throwing away pets in record numbers- and neither do the shelter staff that have to constantly take these dogs in. The social shift I stated above is in direct contrast with what it takes to be a good home for a dog. Pet ownership requirements include commitment, compassion, sacrifice, patience, perseverance, hard work, and love. Deep emotional attachment, the ability to really love another living creature, that depends totally on you for every need, even when it's "inconvenient", is essential for taking home, and keeping, a dog for life. There's just not much of that out there anymore. We can't shift back, the horse is out of the barn, and ran over a cliff- you can make people do a lot of things - except CARE. Euthanasia: THERE ARE NO HOMES for the millions of animals already in the system, with literally thousands of new animals entering shelters every day, all over the country- what is the answer??? AGAIN - shelters/rescues/sanctuaries - FULL. Adoptions/fostering/support - has never been lower, and on the way down. Predatory mega nonprofits are deliberately destroying our sheltering system for millions of dollars - GET INFORMATION ON THIS ONE. Backyard breeders and dog fighting run rampant. And the big one, a society that is apathetic and ambivalent to everything around them, and that includes their pets. Neglect and abuse is being reported in record numbers- where are the good homes? I can't imagine what it would be like to put down animals every day- big dogs, little dogs, old dogs, injured dogs, entire litters of puppies, healthy, adoptable dogs... I'm done with the idiots that call these people killers- they do the ugly job, the necessary job, the heartbreaking, soul crushing job, that everyone else turns their back on/criticizes/denies/ or hides. TODAY, I would like all of the loud, ignorant critics who think they can place millions of unwanted animals in loving, responsible, forever homes to come forward, TODAY. If you have a safe place to put thousands of animals, many with medical/behavioral issues that would cost hundreds of thousands of dollars, and pay the bills/staff that it would take to have such a place, I need to know TODAY. Warehousing dogs has led to horror stories and hoarding. I need to know TODAY what your solution is, where are the GOOD homes for millions of animals that are NOT always receiving the care they need in over crowded shelters. I need to know NOW, because thousands (approx 10,000 a day, I think the numbers have to be much higher) are euthanized every day, and don't forget about the thousands being surrendered right behind them, on the same day... What is the answer, if you can fix this NOW, what the hell are you waiting for? You could be saving thousands of animals TODAY, if you have a better way, you need to step up NOW!!!! All of rescue will be waiting for your answer, TODAY. PERIOD. God bless TAILSEND

Euthanasia and the Ignorance

Every day, SPCAs face harsh criticism over our euthanasia policies.
But we have to ask: do these critics ever stop to consider the real questions?
Where do all these animals come from?
Why do SPCAs resort to euthanasia?
And why are the numbers so high?

Let’s be clear:
It’s not the SPCA that breeds irresponsibly.
It’s not the SPCA that moves away and leaves their pets behind.
It’s not the SPCA that lets animals roam the streets or gives them away for "free to a good home."
It’s not the SPCA that says, “Let her have just one litter,” or, “I only have a male—it’s not my problem if he gets the neighbor’s dog pregnant.”
It’s not the SPCA’s fault that so many animals are abused, neglected, and abandoned.

So, who is responsible for the heartbreaking number of animals being sent over the rainbow bridge every single day?

Let us tell you the harsh reality.

Many SPCAs have started publicly sharing their monthly intake figures.
For example, our SPCA (serving Randfontein and Westonaria) takes in around 150–200 animals every month.
We have fewer than 60 kennels.

Where are we supposed to find the space, food, medicine, and staff to care for every single animal?

And then we hear:
“Why can’t you be like no-kill shelters?”
It’s simple: no-kill shelters can turn animals away.
We don't.

One of the SPCA’s core mandates is that we do not refuse admission of any animal—because we know what happens if we do. And it’s horrific.

If we stopped euthanizing, we would be full within two weeks. Then what?

We also hear:
“Your adoption process is too strict.”

Yes—it absolutely is. And that’s on purpose.
These animals have already been failed by humans. We won’t let it happen again.

We’ve put policies in place because we’ve learned from the past. We’ve seen what happens when we’re not careful.
Our adoption process exists to protect the animals—ensuring they go to homes where they are truly safe, loved, and properly cared for.

We will not send an animal off to a fate worse than death.

So, next time you feel tempted to join the online mob calling SPCAs “killers,”
please stop and ask yourself:

What is really going on?
Who is really to blame?
Who is truly paying the price for ignorance and irresponsibility?

It’s not us.
It’s not the SPCA.
But we carry the emotional burden, make the impossible decisions, and do the best we can with the little we have.

We will not stop putting the animals’ needs first.
We will continue to be the solution—to a problem caused by others.

Even when it breaks our hearts.

08/28/2025

"What is done cannot be undone, but one can prevent it happening again."
— Anne Frank

History’s wounds remain, but wisdom transforms scars into safeguards. Frank’s resilience reminds us: while we can’t erase the past, we can architect the future. Prevention is the highest form of healing.

08/28/2025

THE DANGERS OF GIVING PETS AWAY – ALL FACTS, NO BU****IT

Every time you hand your pet to a stranger online, you’re gambling with their life.

We don’t shame anyone for rehoming when life throws curveballs. What matters is how you do it and the steps you take decide whether you’re a responsible owner, or someone who condemns their pet to suffering.

The ugly realities you need to know:
- Neglect: the most common outcome. Pets taken in but denied food, vet care, shelter, or even basic attention and love.
- Abuse: physical punishment, cruelty, or being trapped in a violent household.
- Hoarding: collected by people with serious mental health issues who keep animals locked in squalor.
- Abandonment: kicked out or dumped on the streets when they no longer want the responsibility.
- Kill shelters: some “new homes” surrender pets straight to pounds, where they face euthanasia.
- Be******ty: highly sickening and more common than most realise, some people take animals to use for sexual abuse.
- Breeding: if your pet isn’t desexed, expect backyard breeding, accidental litters, or exploitation for profit, especially with purebreds or high demand breeds.
- Lab animals: free pets are still targeted for experimentation and research.
- Torture & sa**sm: pets taken by people who mutilate, film, or kill them for fe**sh, money and “entertainment.”
- Live bait: cats, kittens, and small pets commonly used to feed reptiles or as hunting bait.
- Reselling: handed to someone who flips your pet online to make a quick buck, with zero care where they end up.

As an abuse name and shame page, we see this daily. Gumtree, Facebook groups, and unsuspecting owners make it frighteningly easy for abusers to get animals.

If you absolutely must rehome, do it properly: screen adopters, ask hard questions, check references, and trust your gut. A little effort now can save your pet from a nightmare and give you peace of mind.

🔗 we’ve created a Safe Rehoming Guide to help: https://sites.google.com/view/rehome-responsibly
Please share it with anyone who needs to see.

Protect your pets and don’t give them away blindly.
With urgency and care,
Aussies Against Animal Abuse

08/28/2025

“Heaven goes by favour. If it went by merit, you would stay out and your dog would go in. ”
Mark Twain

Ben J. Young - One Last Walk with IzZy, 2021.

08/28/2025

Euthanasia and Compassion Fatigue Amongst Shelter Staff.

A long read.

I want to touch on the reality of an Open Door Shelter and the practice of euthanasia. I am writing this for those who call us uncompassionate, uncaring, murderers. Any many more names. This is for those who think space is endless, funding is endless, staff and volunteer time to give, is endless.

Let me write about working with animals and having to make choices in an Open Door Shelter. Let’s start with explaining what an Open Door Shelter is. It is a PRO-LIFE Shelter. And what does Pro-Life mean to you? Perhaps it means that it is quantity of life? That no animal should die, but rather be condemned to living a life in a cage, until such time, if a miracle occurs, that fabulous home comes along? Not so at all.

Open Door Shelters are places that do not turn animals away from their doors. They take in the strays, surrenders, neglected and abandoned. They take in the animals turned away from ‘No Kill’. And if they didn’t, where would those animals go?

From experience, I can promise you this much. Those animals land up on chains in yards filled with filth, often with no shelter. They get tossed out in the street. They get passed from home to home, to people who don’t really want them. They get chastised as strays, beaten, burnt, stabbed, starved. Their lives often become an eternal misery.

So, we take them in. But because space isn’t endless, for one to come in, one must go out. Literally. If not adopted, euthanasia must be performed.

And how does one choose? I can vouch that the person making the choice is human. With human, comes emotion. Emotions that no matter how hard one suppresses it, can never be suppressed enough. And if it was, then that person should no longer be in this line of rescue.

The emotions start with the realization that calls must be made. Today, tomorrow, the next day. The nausea builds at the thought. Prayers for miracles are never ending. You walk those rows. You look into every set of eyes. The nausea rises as those eyes look back. The tails wag with excitement at the possibility of a walk, a treat, love. Even the ones with broken spirits look at you. The eyes that don’t carry the hope of excitement, still carry the hope that you can give them hope!

Your heart becomes a physical sensation . It begins to break. You feel each crack, each shatter and the pain is real. You may begin to feel shortness of breath. Your legs weaken. The inner (if not the outer) tears start. But walk on you must. Choose you must. You have your criteria on hand. It’s already embedded in your mind.

You discuss each animal with the handlers, the volunteers. And eventually you write down that name. The time comes for you to take ‘that walk’ with the chosen animal. The joy of being out of the kennel is evident. They don’t know that this is the final walk. It’s not a walk to the freedom you wanted and prayed for. It’s a walk to a different kind of freedom. A heart wrenching, emotional meltdown for you. Tails may wag, eyes focus on you.

And you? You are breaking. Others see you walking strong. They may praise you for your strength. But they don’t comprehend the other side of the façade. They don’t see the tears you cry at night. They don't know how you are laying there in pain. They don’t know how those little faces, those eyes, flood your mind. You may forget a name. You never forget a face.

What people do instead, is call us callous, killers, murderers. They say that we could and should have done more. They say it’s our job to do more. Their words add to the build-up of compassion fatigue. Not to be confused with burnout.

When compassion fatigue is reached, a black hole opens. It’s an endless pit. Unknown depth. There is no light within the darkness. None at all. The darkness gapes at you, drawing you in. It becomes enticing, because the horrors of what you have been exposed to and the words of the ignorant, are at your back, pushing you to throw yourself into the abyss of silence. The darkness is more welcoming than the visions and the emotions you must endure on a daily basis.

Don't make demands on who we should be and how we should deal with your accidental litter, or the animals you purchased from either a backyard breeder or a proper breeder, with the animals that are now just too much hard work, because you no longer want the responsibility of being a good owner. Don't rescue and make your rescue our problem. Yes, we will assist, but don't judge when we make calls you yourself are incapable of.

Know that we do what we do because we actually do care. Take your words and redirect them to within yourself. You are in fact, the reason we exist. You are the fact that we need to constantly plead and beg from others who have hearts. Who are able to help us take care of the responsibility you threw away.

I can write on and on.

To those who help us retain our compassion. THANK YOU. ❤️

Time to run with the big dogs or keep your ass on the porch.  Legitimate rescue needs to "grow a set" and step it up, NO...
08/27/2025

Time to run with the big dogs or keep your ass on the porch. Legitimate rescue needs to "grow a set" and step it up, NOW. God bless TAILSEND

Confucius
"If you see what is right and fail to act on it, you lack courage."
🕊️ Confucius teaches that wisdom without action is cowardice. To know the good yet remain silent is to betray both truth and self. True courage is found in the harmony of knowing and doing.

Can't make it any clearer, keeping it simple: you are part of the problem, or part of the solution, in today's out of co...
08/27/2025

Can't make it any clearer, keeping it simple: you are part of the problem, or part of the solution, in today's out of control animal welfare disaster. If you're going to whine and give up, get the hell out of my way. PERIOD. God bless TAILSEND

"People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it." — George Bernard Shaw
Cynics are progress’s roadkill. Shaw’s law: skeptics don’t deserve a voice in the arena. The elite ignore the peanut gallery—because history is written by doers, not doubters.

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