11/16/2025
Two months ago, Oswald
had two vicious encounters
with a neighbor dog that
took his baseline leash
reactivity to pure panic.
The first week,we made no
progress at all. I focused on
getting a read on his body
language, triggers, and stress signals.
Week two, we went to his
family's farm where he's
very comfortable and feels
safe. We worked on loose
leash walking and auto
stops, before establishing
a check-in habit. I don't
cue it because I want it to
be his choice. (Choice is
as important for dogs as it
is for humans!) There's no
pressure, we just sit and
chill quietlv and every time
he looks up at me, I mark it
with a ves! and give him a
treat.
And then we played.
Week three we moved
back to the park from week
one. He was calmer so we
built his confidence with
more rewards for checking
in, then moved on to
progressing our loose leash
walking and auto stops.
And he checks in on me for
the first time mid-walk. My
heart, you guys.
Week four, I enlisted my
husband and Westley to
introduce another dog at
a speed and distance I
could control at Oswald's
comfort level. We started with more easy wins--fine
tuning his With Me cue,
his auto sit, and This Was.
Then I asked my husband
to start walking West
towards us slowly, but from
the beginning, Oswald
stayed relaxed, choosing
to voluntarily check-in with
me unprompted. We kept moving closer until they
were parallel walking within
feet of each other.
So in case anyone
was wondering, don't
underestimate how much
dogs need choice and
consistency and positive
reinforcement.