03/13/2024
A horse in his true power
I think one of the main reasons so many training programs make quick work of shutting a horses energy down is fear of their power.
If youâve ever ridden a horse who is fit, unblocked through the back and confident, there is quite a formidable amount of energy in there. It is a strong, bounding energy, like riding a lightning bolt- youâre part of the circuit, but you donât have near as much control or say as youâd hope.
I think a healthy frame of mind for riding is to consider your weakness and infinitely poorer judgment and timing in the sensory world of a horse. One must let go to some degree-
There is much to be gained in the letting go, in the integrating into the movement of an animal much more graceful than you. To sit and allow your body to become better than it ever could on itâs own- this is an experience that requires detachment from control.
If you work to develop balance and strength, you have the obligation to stay out of the way and let it be shown. A horse in their glory feels like moving, and moving powerfully, and this is precisely what most people do not want.
But why?
Why arenât riding schools teaching folks to sit centered and stay out of the horses way?
To understand, support and honor movement?
Why donât people invest heavily in learning to ride, and ride well, like their life depends on it?
instead of hoping their horse, a 1200 pound rabbit with a sports car motor and a brain that could fit in one manâs hand, adjust to meet their needs instead?
Why instead, do many lesson programs immediately indoctrinate young children with kicking, pulling, making a slave out of a tired and weak horse?
Why do people fear lack of control on a beast whoâs grace and freedom and power is what attracts them in the first place?
So much fear, so much desire for control, so much teaching the horse to physically power down, to drop the base of the neck so there is nowhere to go without artificial human energy taking its place -
Or to mentally escape because there is nothing and nowhere worth going to.
The reality is, you can develop a friend, you can develop confidence, freedom, and balance, and you will still be riding a rocket ship. You have some say, but likely you are slower, less agile, and have poorer judgement as things concern intake and processing of information, so you have to accept some lack of control to get along well with horses.
Learn to balance the horse, help them feel free in their bodies, and stay out of their way.