12/09/2025
HOW DOGS COMMUNICATE TO US
Right now, as I type this, Ebby is being vocal behind my chair. I look around to see if the other desk chair is facing the right way for her to access the seat. That is her usual request. But no, she looks up to where Zoey is in a doggy bed on top of a three-foot cabinet by my side. In the bed are her morning treats she has yet to eat. Ebby wants them. She gives up and mounts the chair. It’s quiet now, except for Christmas music coming out of Alexa. Since retiring I spend many more hours in the day with our pets. The dogs have become even more attached, as if that were possible. And we have developed a more complex level of communication both vocally, facially, and physically- as in hand signaling.
I recently wrote about fear barking. When a dog is frightened and backs up barking or barks and attacks, like ankle biting. Many dogs will growl first in warning. One time a new customer brought a dog into the store and was at the counter. I offered the smallish dog a treat which it took. Then I offered another and the dog shot at me with a menacing cacophony of barks and bared teeth that brought up my PTSD which occurred after I was attacked by an aggressive improperly handled pit bull. (I saw him running towards me. Having turned my back to protect myself, he bit into my butt and then tore my arm open at which point the owner got control of his collar.) Just so you know, I don’t hold that against pit bulls in general. That woman should never have brought such a reactive dog into a public area where a child could have been the one reaching innocently towards it.
Dogs communicate with barking to get their point across: need to go to the bathroom, someone’s at the door, hearing other dogs barking nearby, there’s a strange animal in the yard, the other dog has my toy, I heard you say let’s go for a walk, who are those strangers walking on my turf, I want help getting on the sofa. They also learn to communicate in other ways. Zoey lets me know when she needs the bowls to have fresh water by standing in front of them (upstairs or downstairs) and catching my attention. She patiently waits for me to wash the bowl and refill it. When she wants to sleep under the covers, she awakens me by trying to angle the covers so that I will lift them and she can scoot under.
Sometimes barking dogs can be a nuisance and there are local ordinances against constant annoying barking. I get anxious if my dogs bark before 8:00 in the morning or after 10:00 at night. I make it a point to go out with them in all weather and use my can of behavior controlling spray if they start barking “unnecessarily” and bother the neighbors. Yelling at a dog, which I sometimes do, only excites them more. To them we are joining in the conversation! Yippee.
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