03/18/2025
5 Things You're NOT Failing At (Even If It Feels Like You Are)
Have you ever looked at your training journey with your dog and felt like you're just not measuring up? Like everyone else has it figured out, but you're somehow falling short?
I hear you. And today I want to tell you something important: You're doing so much better than
you think 💛
Let's talk about 5 things that might feel like failures but absolutely are not.
1️⃣ Using management tools is NOT a failure - it's smart training.
That muzzle on your reactive dog? That's not admitting defeat - that's being a responsible owner
who prioritizes safety.
Those baby gates keeping dogs separated? That's not giving up - that's preventing rehearsal of
unwanted behaviors while you work on a solution.
Those long-lines instead of off-leash time? That's not incompetence - that's understanding your
dog's current recall limitations.
Management isn't failure. It's the foundation that makes training possible.
2️⃣ Taking breaks from training doesn't mean you don't care.
Some days, you just don't have the energy for training sessions. Some weeks, life gets overwhelming, and dog training takes a backseat.
This doesn't make you uncommitted - it makes you human.
The best trainers know that consistency over time matters more than perfection in the moment.
A week off won't undo months of work, but burnout certainly might.
3️⃣ Having a dog who struggles doesn't mean you're a bad owner.
Your dog's reactivity, anxiety, or behavior challenges aren't a reflection of how much you care or how hard you're trying.
Dogs, like people, come with their own genetic tendencies, past experiences, and unique
personalities. Some dogs simply face bigger challenges than others - through no fault of their
owners.
The fact that you're seeking solutions already puts you miles ahead of many.
4️⃣ Feeling frustrated or overwhelmed doesn't diminish your efforts.
Ever lost your patience during a training session? Felt tears of frustration welling up during a particularly difficult walk? Wondered if you're even cut out for this?
Welcome to the club - a club that includes every dog trainer and dedicated owner I've ever met.
These feelings don't define your relationship with your dog. How you respond to these feelings
and continue showing up - that's what matters.
5️⃣ Needing help doesn't mean you've failed.
Reaching out to a trainer, joining an online course, or asking questions in forums isn't an admission of defeat - it's a sign of commitment.
The strongest dog owners I know are the ones who readily admit what they don't know and actively seek knowledge.
The struggling isn't the failing. Giving up would be failing - and you're here, still trying, still learning, still showing up for your dog.
And that, my friend, is the very definition of success!
So the next time you feel like you're not measuring up, remember: the fact that you care enough
to worry about failing is exactly why you're not failing at all.
What's something in your dog training journey that felt like failure at first but turned out to be progress
in disguise?
Happy Training!
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