06/11/2026
āComparison is the thief of joy.ā
And honestly, that applies to dog training more than people realize.
Be careful comparing your dog to someone elseās dog. Be careful comparing yourself to another owner. And definitely be careful comparing your dog to a trainerās dog online.
Especially when that trainer is working with a dog that was literally bred to work.
A Belgian Malinois, Dutch Shepherd, German Shepherd, Border Collie, Lab, etc⦠those dogs were bred with a job in mind. Bred to hunt, herd, bite, retrieve, please, problem solve, and work.
So donāt beat yourself up because your Chow Chow, Bernese Mountain Dog, Bulldog, Great Dane, or family pet doesnāt look like some trainerās working dog on Instagram.
That is like being upset your family SUV doesnāt handle like a NASCAR car.
Different genetics. Different purpose. Different reps. Different lifestyle. And that matters.
A dog trainerās job is to train dogs from sun up to sun down. That is the profession. That is the lifestyle. That is the repetition.
Most owners are trying to fit training into an already chaotic life. Kids. Work. Dinner. Schedules. Stress. Family. Bills. Everything.
So no, that does not mean you are failing.
Dog training comes down to time, reps, consistency, clear expectations, fair consequences, and clear communication. Built block by block. Day by day. Rep by rep.
And also, donāt compare yourself to your trainer.
Donāt try to be your trainer.
The best thing you can be for your dog is yourself.
A good trainer should be teaching you the techniques, foundations, timing, communication, and structure behind proper dog training. But then you have to take those things and mold them into who you are, your lifestyle, your dog, and your relationship.
Because that is where it actually becomes real.
Imagine if every artist only tried to copy another artist. If nobody ever made music, painted, built, created, or performed from who they actually were.
It would all be fake.
Dog training is no different.
Use proper training techniques. Use good information. Use structure. Use consequences. Use rewards. Use clear communication.
But donāt lose yourself trying to become someone else.
The goal should never be to make your dog look like someone elseās dog.
The goal is to make your dog the best version of themselves, while building the best relationship possible between you and them.
And trainers need to remember this too.
Donāt compare yourself so much that it ruins your own growth. Donāt gatekeep knowledge. Donāt hope someone else fails so you feel better about where you are.
That is lame.
Hope good for you. Hope good for them. Build each other up. Build the community. Share knowledge. Keep learning. Keep training.
Comparison will steal the joy out of the process if you let it.
Focus on your dog. Focus on your reps. Focus on your relationship. Focus on being the best version of yourself for the dog in front of you.